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Is there a difference in pleasure between sex with someone you love and sex without an emotional connection? Can sex with someone you don’t love ever feel better?

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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. Until around age 40, pretty much anything felt good as long as there was some stimulation. Since around 50, it’s no longer enjoyable unless I have genuine feelings for the person. I think I’m losing my edge.
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. If I feel like having sex with a woman, I basically like her to some extent, so sex feels good.
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茉莉花
茉莉花 ?
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I don’t have sex unwillingly with people I genuinely don’t want to date, so I like most of them to some extent. But with someone I particularly like, the way it feels is different. I’m able to orgasm more easily. By the way, squirting isn’t necessarily related to pleasure or orgasm. Some people know that stimulating a certain spot makes me squirt, so they can make it happen every time. Though I’m not sure I should say “make me,” since I’m not particularly happy about it(笑)。 Marika
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member—and a total loser. The woman I have the most enjoyable sex with isn’t my ace (pay-per-meeting 50), my former ace (pay-per-meeting 20), or even my semi-ace (pay-per-meeting 12)... For penetration, it’s my monthly arrangement (pay-per-meeting 13), who has world-class breasts. And for oral, it’s a god-tier blowjob girl (pay-per-meeting 17), by a margin of about triple the score.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer as well. I think it depends on whether there are romantic feelings involved or not, and also on where you draw the line between the two. Speaking specifically about Universe Club, I pay the setting fee because I want to see that woman, treat her to dinner, and give her an allowance. Depending on the situation, I may even choose a fairly nice hotel. It ends up costing quite a bit of money. Whether that means I’m in love—or whether it goes that far—is difficult to say. But I’m dating her because I feel she’s worth spending that kind of money on. So from the man’s perspective, I think his feelings are pretty strongly invested. Even if the woman doesn’t feel the same way, from the man’s point of view, the fact that she went to a hotel with him means there must be some feelings involved. In this situation, I don’t think it’s really possible to compare having feelings with not having feelings. In that sense, it seems difficult to make a comparison when it comes to men. As for women, I can’t say, since I’m not a woman.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. There’s a certain pleasure that comes from not having an emotional connection, like with commercial sex. Maybe it feels good because there’s less need to hold back?
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