Some men occasionally clear their schedules with this weird air of superiority, saying things like, “If you want to see me soon, I’ll try to make time,” even though they were the ones who said they wanted to meet first. Do they forget what they originally said?

I just go along with it and reply, “I’d love to see you soon~,” but I’m thinking, “Huh?” When it’s a papa (a male supporter) I genuinely want to see, I’ll contact him myself. But if he’s just an okay guy I don’t really care about, I don’t reach out first. Then, about a month later, I’ll get a LINE message like, “How have you been? I’d like to see you soon!” As we go back and forth, he’ll eventually reply with something like, “I’m fine with waiting a little longer, but if you want to see me soon, I’ll clear my schedule even if it’s difficult!!!” It’s not just one guy—several men have acted this way. Is this their way of being considerate? Like, they assume it’s hard for women to reach out first?