A papa (a male supporter) I see always makes unnecessary comments.

Today, as soon as he saw my outfit, he said things with a straight face like, “You look kind of sick” when I was wearing a beanie, or “You look like a prisoner” when I was wearing a Burberry striped top. Even if he’s joking, it hurts and makes me sad that he keeps saying things like this. So today, I ended up quietly saying, “That’s really rude…” This papa (a male supporter) has a strong personality. Even when I haven’t said yes yet because I still need to check my work schedule, he’ll try to book a hotel for the beginning of the year without asking. And even though I told him I was still deciding whether to go home at the end of the year, he snapped, “You said you weren’t going home at the end of the year!!” Every time, I tell him the facts: “No, I never said I wasn’t going home. I said I was still deciding.” Lately, dealing with this papa (a male supporter) has become exhausting, so I want to distance myself for a while. However, I’ve already arranged to meet him about four more times this month. He’s always eager to see me, asking, “Can’t you meet me more often? What days are you free? You’re not working all the time, are you?” Even though I have work the next day, he suggests that I stay in the guest room at his apartment. But I want to sleep peacefully at home the night before work, so I still haven’t stayed over. I have to struggle to turn him down every time. Should I clearly tell him that I want to keep my distance for a while? Or would it be better to meet him on the four days we’ve already arranged this month and then gradually stop seeing him?