I’m very embarrassed to post this, but I’d really appreciate some advice.
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I went to an interview for a hostess job, but they completely rejected everything about my appearance and clothing.
I’m so sad and hurt that I feel like my femininity was denied.
What should I do?
Should I give up my smartphone and work harder on dieting and beauty, perhaps?
After even telling me that I wasn’t a woman, they ultimately told me to work in the adult entertainment industry.
Is there no place for an unattractive woman?
I’m Nana Ayase♡
That was a really harsh thing to say. What did you wear there? A tracksuit, by any chance? Surely not.
Is your stomach sticking out? Or was your makeup gyaru-style with a deep tan…?
Maybe that particular place simply had very high standards, and you might pass at another one. But you do need to work on your figure, makeup, manners, and your understanding of finances.
Just clinging to people and giggling won’t attract clients. It’s the same with a dating club.
Also, when people hear “diet,” they tend to think only about cutting back on food. But what are you going to do after you reach your goal? You’re flabby because you don’t exercise—do sit-ups and squats. Go to the gym or start doing squats.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Why not work hard enough to out-earn even hostesses and sex workers, and show them what you’re made of?
You can make money through your work even if you’re not especially attractive. Let’s prove them wrong.
It’s true that jobs where you “make money off your looks” exist, but that’s not all there is in this world.
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I'm Kazu, a male member.
Maybe the interviewer just had a short fuse.
If they commented on your everyday clothes during an interview for a hostess job, you probably annoyed or angered them somehow. The issue with your outfit could easily have been solved by having you wear the club's clothes.
I don't think dieting or beauty has anything to do with taking a break from your phone.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Any club that says something so cruel to a woman is pretty low-class, so you don’t need to worry about it. That said, if you want to work in nightlife, you should pay attention to your grooming and appearance. It might also be a good idea to turn to professionals who can assess you objectively, such as a makeup artist for lessons or someone who can analyze your personal color.
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