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Dec 6, 2021 11:58
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Or would it be clearer if I gave him a few options, like:
- This accessory
- This wallet
- These shoes
I’d prefer something other than cash.
4 answers
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It’s best to think of something you want most right now and tell him that. Actually, it’s even more natural and appreciated if it’s something you’ve wanted for a while and genuinely want the most at the moment.
A wallet, bag, shoes, electronics, and so on.
If you like accessories, one piece of jewelry could work too.
I’ve never been asked to give multiple options, so I think you’ll make a better impression by avoiding that.
I’ve never been asked about my budget either.
—Paper Airplane
Other
I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I’m jealous of you all! If you’re close with him, I think it’s fine to ask about his budget. I’d probably say, “This is what I’d really like…” and make a request for something I want. Then I’d add playfully, “Just let me know if it’s over your budget!” haha.
How about going shopping together? I’d definitely be happier receiving something I genuinely want.
I hope you have a wonderful Christmas!
Other
How about giving them around three options at different price points?
It depends on your relationship, but if I felt awkward asking directly, that’s what I would do.
Something like a “liste de mariage,” perhaps?
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It varies from man to man, and it also depends on the relationship between the man and you.
People have asked essentially the same thing so many times that it’s getting tiresome, so please search the question box and think it through for yourself.
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/search?word=%E4%BA%88%E7%AE%97
Adding this after reading Marika’s answer: I agree, the “pine-bamboo-plum” strategy is a very good approach.