Something I’ve been particularly curious about lately: Some people say, “I’d be willing to accept it if it were a reverse offer.” Does the club recognize that as simply free-choice dating, or are they just turning a blind eye?
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Wouldn’t that mean there’s another way for people who are desperately looking for someone and sending offers—that is, having connections?
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
I think you’ve misunderstood the situation.
Even with a reverse offer, the man pays the club’s standard setup fee, so a reverse offer isn’t always accepted.
That’s why the club has nothing to lose if a woman who’s desperately looking contacts a respondent and asks them to make her an offer.
If someone says they’re open to receiving reverse offers, there’s a good chance it will work out, so feel free to contact them.
As long as the club receives its official setup fee, it has nothing to lose.
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> Wouldn’t that mean there’s another way (i.e., connections) available to people who are desperately searching for someone and making offers?
Did I understand correctly that this means: even though there are men desperately looking for someone and making offers, it’s unfair to have something like a reverse offer through personal connections?
I’ve already had such wonderful encounters that I no longer need to make new offers (I’m praising the club), so I don’t feel much inclination to make new offers or actively search. However, I would accept a reverse offer, since the other person may not have met any good men yet. It would also give me valuable experience and something to learn from.
That’s how I feel about it.
It would be a learning experience, and if I can be of even a little help, I think that would also be another way of improving myself.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Since the club allows it, reverse offers do sometimes go through.
That said, when someone says they’d accept a reverse offer, they’re looking at the question and saying, “I’d accept one from this woman,” so I don’t think they mean they’d accept one from just anyone.
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