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Dec 5, 2021 17:02
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
> How do you think I should have handled it?
I think it might help to tell him in advance what time you’ll need to leave, so he can pace himself accordingly.
Also, partway through—or rather, near the beginning—you could say something like:
“It’s starting to hurt.”
Then suggest moving on to penetration.
If he asks, “Is penetration okay even though it hurts?” you could say:
“I can tolerate it for a little while, so it’s okay.”
Something along those lines should work.
Still, blocking someone’s way out… What are grown adults even doing?
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You ended up dealing with a self-centered man who was full of his own assumptions. He probably mistook your discomfort for enjoyment. It’s truly awful.
Men like that are extremely self-centered, so you never know what they might do. From a woman’s perspective, it’s nothing but frightening.
So I feel you did everything you could in that situation. Since you received your allowance, I think it’s best to forget about him and report the incident to the club properly as soon as you’re on your way home.
Please calmly report the facts, including that you felt afraid.
If you write while you’re still emotional, it could actually leave a worse impression and cause you to lose out.
Akari
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
You just want someone to vent to, right?
I sympathize, but if you meet a terrible man, all you can do is try to forget him.