Tips Dec 5, 2021 08:35

The woman I went on a date with recently said, “You already had five stars before we met, so I felt comfortable coming.” Does this mean she could tell that I’ve been on a lot of dates? What percentage of male members have five stars? If she thinks I’ve been dating a lot, is it possible to have my rating changed to three stars?

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I’m Kousaka from the staff, and I’d like to share my thoughts as well! First of all, changing the star rating is difficult because it’s calculated on a points-based system. (For example, if Person A gives −2 and Person B gives +2, the rating automatically becomes 0.) Honestly, rather than thinking, “She has five stars, so she must go on amazing dates,” I think it’s better to go in with the mindset, “She has five stars, so I’m going to have a great time dating her!”—just as one of our male members mentioned. That way, it becomes a win-win relationship for both sides! More than anything, it also allows our staff to confidently introduce her to male members, saying, “You’ll definitely be fine with her!” Let’s stay positive instead of looking at things negatively! (*^^*)
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
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I’m Osaka, a male member. Exactly! I was wondering about that too, lol. Actually, I was thinking that three stars might be the highest rating for both men and women… but who knows, lol.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. If women are concerned about receiving too many offers, they can simply decline them. If enough women feel that way, I’m sure the club will take it into consideration. But if you’ve made an offer to a new woman and she accepted it without issue, coming to the date feeling comfortable, then isn’t there really a problem?
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. If I receive four “+2: Very good” ratings from dates since July, I’ll receive a five-star rating. So it will be obvious that I’ve made at least four offers. I don’t think it’s possible to ask them to adjust the star rating.
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