Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. I’ll answer this too.
There have been similar questions in the past, and some respondents say that a few men increase the allowance later on.
In reality, though, I think the percentage of men who actually do that is probably no more than 0.1%.
So, basically, it’s best to assume that the allowance won’t increase later.
What should you do, then?
The beginning is crucial.
If you want 60,000 yen but he offers 50,000 yen, and you’re okay with continuing at 50,000 yen, then go ahead and see how things develop.
But if you want 60,000 yen, then when he offers 50,000 yen, you should simply think that you weren’t meant to meet and say something like, “Our expectations don’t match, so I’m going to head home.” There’s no need to continue seeing him.
If the man genuinely wants to pursue an arrangement with you, he’ll probably say something like, “Sorry, 60,000 yen is fine. How does that sound?”
If he wasn’t all that interested in the first place, you’ll simply part ways. But since he wasn’t that interested anyway, deciding not to pursue things with him was the right choice.
If you’re worried that you might miss out on a good man because of the allowance, you could accept whatever he offers for the first meeting and then tell him, “For our next meeting, I’d like to receive this amount.”
That said, most men will probably agree in the moment but then not meet you again. Even so, this approach may increase your chances of finding a good man.
It’s hard to say what the right answer is, but I think it’s best to assume that allowances almost never increase later and decide from the outset what amount you’re willing to accept.
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Tell her you want to see her and try to meet more often.
Speaking of which, the girl I mentioned a few days ago—the one I met again after two years—returned a card I’d given her several years ago, so I accepted it.
If you meet often enough, she might give you a card too.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s difficult to raise it.
If there’s any possibility, you could negotiate by saying that you’d like a slightly higher allowance in exchange for increasing the number of times you meet each month.
Even then, I think it may be easier for them to agree if you suggest slightly lowering the allowance per meeting.
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
Whether it’s intimacy or dating, please make an effort to keep your papa satisfied.
Please get along with him as if you were genuinely dating.
Without making an effort, there’s no chance of getting a higher allowance.
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If you can attract him without giving off a money-hungry vibe, and by offering more than just youth and looks, things will naturally develop that way.
That takes more than shallow tricks—you’ll need to make an effort to become more intelligent and appealing.
If you want to benefit from the financial stability your papa (a male supporter) has built up, I believe you’ll need to put in effort as well.
That said, the more generous the support, the more restrictions tend to come with it, so be sure to manage the relationship carefully.
Akari
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
As before, I don’t think there will be any increase in the base allowance. You’ll probably just have to work harder to satisfy your papa (male supporter) more than ever.
Even if you feel that you’re making an effort, it will all be in vain if your papa doesn’t notice it, so be careful not to let it become self-satisfaction.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think the key is to become much, much closer to your papa.
That’s how it worked for me. As we grew closer, he started saying things like, “I’ll buy you this too,” or “You probably need this.” Eventually, he said, “It’s a hassle for me to keep buying things for you one by one, so I’ll give you a card to use.” There were also several times when he gave me taxi vouchers in bulk or rented a place for me.
I realized that unless you become genuinely close, your papa won’t really feel like doing extra things for you.
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