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Dec 3, 2021 17:46
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So far, I’ve been introduced to 21 women. Almost all of them were Type C, with only two or three being Type B.
Of those, I ended up having an adult relationship with eight.
After reading the posts here, I started thinking, “Wow, my success rate is pretty low. Maybe there’s something wrong with me?” I’d like to become more attractive to women.
I’m not stingy with the allowance, so it’s not that we couldn’t agree on that. I feel there must be some other issue.
I realize it may be pointless to ask people who don’t know me personally, but what do you think could be causing this?
And if you have any advice on things I should be careful about or improve, I’d really appreciate it.
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🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
Do you speak casually from the very first meeting? Even if they’re twice your age, treat them as an equal until you’ve gotten close.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
There’s far too little information to say much. Read through the columns and Q&A posts, and try to identify areas where you can improve.
I’m impressed that your mental strength hasn’t been crushed by being turned down so often. But at the same time, after being rejected that many times, haven’t you been able to come up with any ways to improve—or actually made any improvements?
I did get the impression that you’re not good at reading the room and don’t notice the other person’s signals.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
The fact that he talks about things like his “batting average” makes me think there may be something off about his character.
綾瀬なな
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Other
I’m Ayase Nana ☆
Have you looked at the other questions?
First, there’s cleanliness, how he treats the staff, how safely he drives, and whether his penis smells fishy.
What does he wear?
Once you start thinking about it, the list never ends.
For now, let’s work through the things the other respondents mentioned, one at a time.
あや
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Without knowing the specific situations and how you’re being turned down, all I can really say is something vague like, “Maybe you need to pay more attention to your grooming.” So, if you don’t mind, it would be helpful if you could share some specifics.
If you’re a Type C, I don’t think you’d get turned down that often as long as your first date is somewhere private—not a family restaurant, for example—and you’re not overly pushy about going to a hotel…
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
> You don’t hesitate to pay the allowance either.
That makes it sound as though you’d be satisfied as long as you can have an adult relationship (intimate).
What are you looking for from the club?
Are you hoping for a wonderful relationship?
Or do you simply want to sleep with a beautiful woman?
If it’s the latter, your odds are far too low. At the very least, I’d recommend visiting a breath clinic.
Also, trying to get by on money is a classic way to be avoided. You may want to reconsider how you order during meals and how you treat the staff. It would also be a good idea to think about spending money in a meaningful way, with the right balance and a sense of generosity that conveys confidence as a man.
Paper Airplane
フラグメーカー
Male
Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
Maybe you’re trying too hard and swinging at full power?
For the first meeting, it’s best to play it safe with a half swing—use about 50–60% of your strength. Golf works the same way, right? You’ll get a more consistent score that way.