Tips Dec 3, 2021 17:33

I’m a female college student living alone. The men who want something more like a romantic relationship than papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are always the ones saying they want to go to my place. It’s seriously creepy—why are they so eager to go to a woman’s home? I’m honestly scared.

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斉藤さんだぞ♪
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪ I don’t really feel like going.
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I’m Ayase Nana☆ Having him come to your home… that’s scary (汗) Maybe he wants to pry into your private life. Whatever you do, don’t invite him over.
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I’m a columnist and a flag-maker. I mean, what is it about men? We’re point-scorers. We want to rack up achievements like, “I’ve done ○○,” “I’ve been to ○○,” or “I’ve had an experience like ○○.” “Being close with a woman who does papa-katsu” is worth 2 points, but “going to her place” is worth 8.
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I’m Aya, one of the female members. If all you say is, “An older man who wants to go to a college girl’s apartment,” then yes, it sounds seriously creepy. I understand why you’d think, “But we’re not even dating…” That said, there are also women who deliberately let men believe they’re in love with them, even revealing their home address to grow closer to customers and get money out of them. You sometimes see this with hostesses, for example. So there is, in fact, a place for men who want to go to a woman’s home… As long as that kind of outlet exists, some men are bound to get the wrong idea. I think all you can do is brush them off. Hang in there.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Maybe you think being invited to her home is proof that you’re in a relationship with her. Isn’t that obvious?
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