Tips Dec 2, 2021 15:45

I’m a male member, and lately I’ve been having trouble reaching climax. It feels like my brain isn’t properly amplifying the physical pleasure from my lower body and feeding it back down there. Even when the woman is writhing with pleasure, sex has become so routine that my mind stays calm and I don’t get that excited. What do you all do in situations like this? It’s especially difficult when she’s completely passive. Medication doping lets me have sex itself, but I may also be drinking alcohol or taking medicine for my rhinitis, so perhaps those have a suppressive effect as well. I’d rather not go as far as injecting my penis, so if you know of any effective methods, I’d really appreciate your advice. Thank you.

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I’m Dai, a male member. I get bored if I’m intimate with the same woman all the time. It may also help to tell yourself that it’s okay if you don’t climax today. If you put pressure on yourself to perform, you may have trouble getting or maintaining an erection.
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This is Nana Ayase ☆ I once heard from someone older that you should always release yourself once a week, but apparently you shouldn’t strain too hard while doing it. A certain researcher also said that it can be controlled through diet. I actually spoke with them on the phone once, but their “University of Tokyo brain” was way beyond me. They asked me to help out at their dojo, but I couldn’t understand what they were talking about. What a shame.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Column writer Fuu here. Even Fuu has a hard time with someone who just lies there. Why not find someone here who isn’t like that—someone who reacts properly and genuinely enjoys it—and make her your monthly arrangement? Once you’ve built trust through a monthly arrangement, she may be willing to get carried away with you in all sorts of settings: standing from behind, on a hotel terrace while traveling, in a private open-air bath, or occasionally wearing sexy lingerie or a costume. Since your partner enjoys it too, the visual stimulation can really get your brain excited.
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