I’m the person who posted this question.
I know the LINE contact of that man’s favorite woman (they haven’t been intimate), so I’m thinking of either telling her about the attempted rape, attempted murder, and the fact that he has genital warts—that I was infected during the attempted rape—or calling the man directly.
Which do you think would be better?
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
I think you need to calm down and look at this objectively. Honestly, you don’t seem to be in a normal state of mind. I think you should visit a mental health clinic.
I’m not making fun of you. I’m genuinely concerned about you.
If you send this to a third party at this stage, before an alleged attempted rape or anything similar has been substantiated, you could be the one convicted of blackmail and sentenced to prison.
I’m sorry to say this, but you should consult a lawyer and carefully determine whether you actually suffered harm from this man’s actions and whether you can prove it. These days, many lawyers offer free consultations by LINE, at least for hearing the initial details.
For now, set aside your feelings of “I can’t forgive him!” and discuss with a lawyer whether the claims can actually be proven.
If that seems difficult, address your mental health issues at a mental health clinic first.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If you’re only telling another woman about it, I don’t think it would amount to criminal intimidation or anything like that. So I think it’s okay to message her on LINE with something like, “This man did this to me, so please be careful!”
That said, please be extremely careful not to provoke resentment from the man afterward.
I don’t know what kind of person he is, so I can’t say anything specific, but a man’s grudge can genuinely be frightening. If he has access to your personal information, there’s a possibility he could post it online. Please put your own safety first.
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It’s not as though it only counts as blackmail if they demand money, right?
Anyway, before doing anything, you should sharpen your instincts for spotting dangerous men—and avoid becoming the kind of woman those men are drawn to.
Because it really does look like she’s choosing this for herself. In one way or another, she probably enjoys making a huge fuss like that, especially when people engage with her on Q&A sites.
I don’t want to risk being accused of aiding and abetting anything, so I won’t comment further, but I’ll say this much: you should stop.
Marika
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I’ll answer as Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
Take a moment to calm down and think carefully about what benefit this would actually have for you.
Would telling your favorite woman give you any benefit?
Would calling the man give you any benefit?
Even if you got revenge, I don’t think it would accomplish much, and without some tangible benefit, you may only end up feeling empty afterward.
If you take any strange or rash action, there’s also a possibility that you could be sued instead, so I think you should consider your options carefully.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I wonder which is better...
With a woman who messages you on LINE, you never really know what prompted her to do it...
And when a man calls, I find myself thinking, “Why are you calling me?” (lol)
Everyone, let’s learn from this as an example of what not to do...
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