Would it violate the rules to write something like, “If I meet someone wonderful, I may switch to Type C ♡” in my comments while registered as Type B?
I originally registered as Type B, but there were so many wonderful people that just having dinner felt a little lonely, so I switched to Type C.
However, since switching, I haven’t really met anyone I click with, so I’m considering switching back to Type B.
Would writing something like the above in my comments be prohibited?
Also—and I know this may sound bad—are there differences in the quality of the people who send offers between Types B and C?
I’m Dai, a male member.
Women who keep changing their profiles may be suspected of misrepresenting themselves, so if you’ve found a man who’s a better match for B, I recommend making this your final change.
It’s not so much that B and C differ in quality. Rather, when men feel that a woman is difficult to win over, they tend to treat her more thoughtfully.
As Flag Maker mentioned, some men may take a Gold C woman less seriously than a Platinum B woman.
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I think you’re better suited to the C type. Alternatively, you could register with a different club.
If you write a comment like that, it completely defeats the purpose of being classified as B, so I’d rather you not write anything yourself suggesting same-day arrangements or something more like C.
I’ve also had experiences with B-type women who were open to an adult relationship from the very first day, but then changed to C, like you. Naturally, I couldn’t help feeling a little disappointed.
With the B type, the ideal arrangement is to enjoy dates that are close to normal—not an adult relationship every time—and then have an adult relationship once every few dates. That way, the chemistry, excitement, and satisfaction are all the better. I think it comes closest to fulfilling everything the man is looking for.
So if there’s a comment suggesting she’s okay with it from the first day—especially before you’ve even met, and written by her herself rather than the staff—then…
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Flag Maker’s candid answer was interesting.
So I’ll be candid too and share what goes through my mind. When I make an offer, I always watch the videos and read the profile, but more than anything, I prioritize women who give me that certain gut feeling. That said, I actually prioritize B types over C types. That’s just my personal opinion, haha.
C types tend to be more proactive, and since they’re open to being invited out on the same day, I sometimes see them as either prioritizing their allowance, trying to increase the number of offers they receive, or being experienced enough to confidently turn someone down if they’re not interested. That’s just how they come across to me, lol.
With B types, I tend to prioritize the feeling that they’re wary of someone coming on too strong from the very first meeting. I feel they may prioritize finding the right match over the number of offers, not want to push themselves too hard, or have a certain amount of pride.
Personally, I choose B types because I find it more enjoyable when someone chooses me and we build a relationship. Since I also prioritize the nature of the relationship and how well we match, rather than worrying about wasting my initial offer, I feel it’s more meaningful for the future relationship if they meet me and focus on our chemistry.
In that sense, isn’t saying something like “There might be a chance for something that day” as a courtesy actually counterproductive?
That’s just my personal opinion.
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I’m Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu, and I’ll answer this one too.
> Is there a difference in the quality of the people offering between B and C?
It seems the type of person is different, rather than the quality.
With B, you’re more likely to meet men who aren’t as pushy, so B may be better if you want to take your time getting to know someone.
> Is it not allowed to write something like the above in the comments section?
I don’t think it’s prohibited, but I feel like it could become a little confusing.
For example, if someone selects C and writes, “If he’s a wonderful person, I’ll move to D,” you’d be left thinking, “Huh?”
C basically means, “If he seems like a great person, I’ll agree after dinner.”
D, on the other hand, means something like, “I’m not particular about looks, so I’d probably be fine with most men.”
So if you write it exactly that way in the comments, the meaning may be hard to understand. It might be better to say something more directly, such as:
“I’m choosing B, but if he’s a wonderful person, I intend to be okay with it from the first day.”
But then, if you actually want the first meeting to be dinner only and plan to consider it from the second meeting onward, the man may assume that you didn’t like him because nothing happened on the first day.
It could get pretty complicated.
Maybe you should just hand him a YES/NO pillow during dinner and decide what happens from the first day based on whether you both choose YES. (Laughs)
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I’m Flag Maker, a relationship column writer.
This may sound crude, but I think it’s fairly close to the truth, so I’ll say it plainly.
I think the quality of the men you encounter depends less on your relationship type and more on your class. If you’re a C in the Platinum to Black classes, the men will be somewhat intimidated and more cautious.
On the other hand, if you’re a C in the Standard to Gold classes, they may try to take advantage of you.
Unfortunately, this is pretty much the reality. That’s just the kind of world it is.
So if you’re in the Standard to Gold classes, it’s probably safest to stay as a B.
The downside is that you may not know your own class, but you should be able to make a fairly good guess based on the classes of the men who have made you offers so far.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Aya!
Men—including me—are overly confident, you know（笑）
I think we all believe we’re the good guy and that we’re bound to be compatible（笑）
P.S.
Nana feels the same way. We all want to get to know you better（笑）
Conclusion: Save it for next time.
It’s not something you need to rush into, right?（笑）
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
If you meet someone wonderful, I think it’s better to say, “I’d like to get to know you better that day,” rather than writing “…C.”
It’s better to phrase it delicately instead of saying it too directly.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I was a Type B, but I was never pressured to take things further on the day. Since I could go on a date first and decide whether I wanted to meet again, I felt it suited me because I’m not good at saying no.
Instead of saying, “I’d consider Type C if I meet someone wonderful,” how about phrasing it like: “I’d be happy to receive an invitation that day from someone wonderful, or someone I feel I really click with over dinner♡”
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