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A girl I’m fond of recently cut her long hair to around shoulder length, and now she says she’s going to go short next. I prefer long hair and liked her better before; honestly, I don’t think short hair suits her, so I don’t want her to cut it. Is there a good way to tell her?

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I’m Nana Ayase☆ Please casually tell me once, “Are you getting a haircut? Long hair suits you better.” I’ll probably cut it anyway, but since you said it, please accept that. It would be nice if I changed my mind and didn’t cut it.
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If he really likes you, I’m sure he’d think you looked cute with short hair too. Just be grateful and tell him you’re happy he’s shown you such a good time. And if he likes you, he’ll ask, “Which one do you like? Was it good?” Eventually, he’ll make your wish come true. If you can’t wait until then, I guess that just shows your level of patience. —Paper Plane
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It would be best to know your place. Akari
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer as well. Does the questioner realize how much work it is to maintain long hair? I don’t actually know from personal experience, but just listening to women talk about it should give you an idea of how demanding it is. When you think about it that way, simply having shorter hair might allow someone to make better use of about two hours a day. That may be a slight exaggeration, though. If you want to impose your personal preference, let’s say the allowance for a regular date is ¥50,000 and you spend about three hours together. That works out to roughly ¥16,600 per hour. Even if we count the time you’re not together at half that rate: 2 hours × 30 days × ¥8,300 = ¥498,000 per month So I feel that saying, “I’ll pay you ¥500,000 every month, so please keep your hair long,” would be the price of imposing your preference on her. If you can’t go that far, I think you should stop trying to force your personal taste on someone else. If she decides that short hair doesn’t suit her, she’ll grow it out again. I think the best thing to do is simply watch over her warmly in the meantime.
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I’m Aya, a female member. No matter how you phrase it, he’ll be put off, so let’s just give up.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. You could try saying it, but since you’re neither her boyfriend nor her husband, she might find it annoying. A cute girl is cute whether she cuts her hair or grows it out, right? Personally, I’d think it was lucky to enjoy H with her in all kinds of hairstyles. I’m a pervert, Fuu—I get excited when the view from behind changes.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. A woman’s hairstyle is a matter of personal preference, so I don’t think it’s something her allowance partner should be commenting on. Saying that it doesn’t suit her would be unnecessary and hurtful, so it would be better to simply let her know that you prefer long hair. If you dislike her haircut so much that you can’t accept it, then I think you should end the relationship.
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