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Nov 26, 2021 20:27
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This is my first time dealing with someone who’s M, so I don’t know what I should do.
Would it be okay to stand on my papa’s stomach in heels…? Would that be too much?
My papa has the kind of refined, traditional-theater actor looks you’d see in the kabuki world, which makes this even more confusing.
5 answers
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
It’s a good sign that the person asking the question isn’t opposed to it and is curious to explore.
Try things little by little while watching their reactions—or, if you’re close, ask what they’d like.
Hopefully, you can both enjoy it together.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
Just ask him directly and honestly what he’s looking for.
If things go well, he could become a generous long-term papa.
If he’s creepy, just cut him off.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer this one too.
If he’s an M-type guy, he’ll probably tell you what to do at first.
So I think it’s best to proceed while asking him what he wants you to do.
If, after that, you feel like you should try stepping on your papa’s stomach in heels, then I suppose you could give it a try—but do men actually want you to step on their stomachs?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s always on the losing end.
Try having him get down on all fours and spanking his butt with your palm. Start with some gentle domination, and once you get used to it, try using your heel.
He might even become a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter), haha.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
People often lump everything under “M,” but preferences can vary widely. If you can figure out how to satisfy your papa’s particular tastes, you may be able to win him over even more.
Why not try different things, ask him tactfully, and analyze what he’s into?