For an adult relationship (intimate), how much do you pay or receive?

I’m Kazu, a male member. Basically, I pay 50,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis. Before joining the club, I wanted to meet women who looked like TV personalities, and I paid six-figure amounts a few times. But it wasn’t particularly interesting, so I don’t think I’ll ever pay that much again. At the club, I paid an allowance of 100,000 yen several times to see whether it would really be twice as good. It wasn’t even close to twice as good—in fact, there was nothing particularly special about it—so I decided I would only meet women for 50,000 yen per meeting. I always start by asking what the woman is looking for. Occasionally, women ask for 60,000 to 100,000 yen, but these days I politely decline, saying that it seems we weren’t meant to meet. I don’t believe someone new to me could offer 20% to 100% more than the partner I’m currently seeing, who treats me well for 50,000 yen. Besides, if I gave a newcomer more than I give someone I’ve been seeing regularly, I’d probably feel bad about it. Come to think of it, one woman once negotiated for a higher allowance because she had found a papa (a male supporter) who paid her 100,000 yen. I wasn’t willing to raise her allowance alone, so we parted ways. A few months later, she contacted me saying, “It’s been a while. Would you like to go out for a meal?” When we met, she asked if we could get back together, saying she was fine with the same allowance as before. It seems she had ended things with the 100,000-yen papa within a few months. I had liked her enough to consider getting back together, so I agreed. I’ve also had several women who initially asked for 60,000 to 100,000 yen, so we ended things after just dinner, contact me one or two months later and say they’d be willing to meet for 50,000 yen. Last year, I accepted and met them to see how it went, but apparently I just don’t click with women where things got off to a bad start. Since this year, I’ve found it too much of a hassle, so I simply decline when they say, “Let’s meet, and I’ll lower my allowance later.”

The highly popular platinum- and black-tier women who receive around 20–30 offers within their first month of registering and continue to receive offers without interruption seem to fit Makeotoko’s data pretty well. I also get the impression that women with strong material desires—or perhaps a strong desire for money—will only meet men rated 7.8 or higher, while those who aren’t as materialistic narrow their choices based on factors other than the allowance. That’s why an allowance of around 50,000 yen creates a clear and rational dividing line. As a man, I’d also like to be chosen for qualities other than the allowance. I think that’s where men and women naturally sort themselves out. Paper Airplane.

I’m a male member—and a total loser. I’ve researched adult-relationship allowances inside and out, so I’ll answer. For an extremely popular platinum girl in a major metropolitan area like Tokyo, Osaka, or Nagoya, who receives around 20 offers within her first month of joining, it’s roughly like this: Pay-per-meeting under 40,000 yen: 2 Pay-per-meeting 50,000 yen: 10 Pay-per-meeting 60,000–70,000 yen: 4 Pay-per-meeting 80,000–90,000 yen: 2 Pay-per-meeting 100,000 yen or more: 2 The papas offering 100,000 yen or more per meeting usually don’t stick around, so she’ll probably keep around five papas who pay about 70,000 yen per meeting. It’s cheap, right...? You might think this is because of this anonymous Q&A site, but that’s actually not the case. Even if a woman at this level joined another high-end dating club, the rates would be about the same. For a popular gold-level woman, it would probably look something like this: Pay-per-meeting 30,000–40,000 yen: 9 Pay-per-meeting 50,000 yen: 7 Pay-per-meeting 60,000–70,000 yen: 3 Pay-per-meeting 80,000–90,000 yen: 1 These figures are pretty accurate, so this question might get hidden, haha. I’ve also answered questions in the hope of raising these terrible adult-relationship rates: ・To give the PJ girls dreams and hope ・To give the male members a wake-up call That’s why my allowances are considerably higher than the going rate. I currently have about 10 women I’m seeing, though the number fluctuates, and it’s roughly like this: Around 120,000 yen per meeting: 7 150,000 yen per meeting: 1 170,000 yen per meeting: 1—an ideal provider 500,000 yen per meeting: 1—my ace I’ve accurately told the club manager which women these are, so Mr. Maezawa should be able to verify it. Please keep in mind that women receiving moderately high allowances—like 150,000 or 170,000 yen per meeting—are actually more likely to be dropped. Don’t misread this point. Naturally, women want to aim for higher allowances. But that also means taking on more risk. I’ve even dropped the amazing provider who could satisfy me in just three minutes, despite my being a very slow finisher. On the other hand, if a girl willing to work for 100,000 yen per meeting joined this group, she’d probably be secure for two or three years. At 80,000 yen per meeting, I’d likely continue supporting her for more than five years.

I’m Dai, a male member. I listen to what the woman wants, but basically, I offer 5 for a pay-per-meeting arrangement. Sometimes they ask for 8, and if I’m interested in meeting them once to see how it goes, I’ll agree to it for the first meeting. As for continuing after the second meeting, I haven’t found that they offer any added value compared with other women, so none of those arrangements have continued.

I’m Aya, a female member. I think my pay-per-meeting allowance ranged from a minimum of 30,000 yen to a maximum of 110,000 yen. The average was probably around 70,000 yen. But that was only at first—now I only have monthly arrangement papas, so pay-per-meeting isn’t really a thing for me anymore. This was all before COVID, by the way.

I’m Nana Ayase ♡ How much do you receive for an adult relationship (intimate), questioner? It varies depending on the papa (male supporter), doesn’t it? I receive 10 per pay-per-meeting arrangement. The other person decided the amount. I never bring it up myself.