If you decide you’re not a good match at the first meeting and part ways, what do you (especially the men) do afterward? Honestly, I mean in terms of sexual frustration.
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I just met a woman through a new offer, but after only a brief conversation, I felt she was immature in a bad way, so I immediately asked her to leave.
It’s fine—I figure this kind of thing is bound to happen once you’ve had more meetings—but she was exactly my type looks-wise, a Type D, so now I’m left with all the anticipation and sexual desire I’d built up, with nowhere for it to go.
There’s nothing I can do about this particular situation, but for future reference, I’d appreciate hearing what you do when you go in expecting things to progress but they don’t.
I’m Dai, a male member.
Since I make offers with a certain type of woman in mind, I’ll still invite her out at least once, even if I feel we might not be a good match.
So far, there’s only been one woman I really felt wasn’t right for me…
When I’m in the mood but end up disappointed because she’s on her period, I just have a few drinks and go to bed early, haha.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
If I were in that situation, I’d feel bad for a girl with a D cup if I didn’t at least have an adult relationship with her once before deciding not to see her again.
When I get stood up or turned down at the last minute, I deal with the feelings—and the sexual frustration—by having a few drinks, eating something delicious, and just enduring it for the day.
Then, when I see my next monthly arrangement partner, I have her make it more intense, like from behind, and get it out of my system. Grateful!
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Women also get themselves in the mood and prepare for the occasion with a purpose in mind.
> If she was a D-type whose looks you liked,
you should at least go as far as giving her the allowance before sending her home. That’s what it means to be a man who’ll regret it later. It’ll help you get better at judging people in the future, too…
— Paper Airplane.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m supposed to meet a woman I’m seeing regularly a few days later, so I’ll save it up until then.
Also, it’s rare for sex with someone you’ve just met to be great right from the start, so I keep my expectations low and view the first time as an interview for both of us. That makes it all the more rewarding when things unexpectedly go well, so I recommend it.
Adding this after reading Mac’s answer:
> I can’t stop wondering about this part—if you had that much sexual frustration to deal with, why didn’t you just ask?
Since the beginning of this year, if I’m not in the mood on a first date with a C- or D-type woman, I just have dinner and call it a night. That happens nearly half the time.
The reason is that having sex with a woman I’m not particularly interested in feels like a hassle. And if I were to catch pharyngeal chlamydia, I’d need to abstain for even longer.
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