How often should I message my papa (a male supporter) on LINE?
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I’m thinking of messaging him for the first time in five days,
but I’m not sure what I should say.
We’ve only met twice so far,
and we’re not that close yet.
I’m a male member who’s pretty bad at this.
I often help write messages negotiating allowances with other papas over LINE.
I’ll tell the women I’m seeing via email or whatever:
“Copy and paste this exactly, then send it to your papa on LINE.”
Since it’s someone else’s money—the other papa’s—I can use my skills without holding back, so it’s honestly a lot of fun♪
My answer is the same as Mac’s. I think simply sending at least three possible dates is just right.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Even if you haven’t become intimate, after meeting twice, you’ve probably started to get a sense of what kind of man he is.
I think men who want to stay connected every day, even over trivial things, are the genuinely romantically invested type.
Men who aren’t like that probably mostly just message to arrange the next meeting, or send a LINE as a reminder.
Either way, it’s safest to reply when your papa (a male supporter) messages you.
Even men like me, who aren’t the type to contact someone frequently, are happy when a woman casually sends us a LINE. That said, some men might find it bothersome…
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If it’s been five days and you still can’t think of anything to say naturally, breaking things off may be one option.
On the first day you meet—or after two or three days or a week—it wouldn’t be unusual for a woman to have countless things she can easily message you about.
If you’ve met twice and neither of you can communicate naturally, it seems like it may be a struggle for both of you.
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Here’s a real-life example. Four days after our second meeting, she sent me a LINE message. Until then, we’d only contacted each other about scheduling.
“Hey…”
“When’s your birthday?”
I was a little surprised, but also happy. It made me feel like we’d become closer. During the several back-and-forth exchanges that followed, she seemed genuinely happy, which made me even happier.
That relationship lasted two years. If she hadn’t moved overseas, it might have continued a little longer.
It’s fine to come up with different strategies and make things work, but honestly, there’s nothing better than being yourself and truly connecting with someone.
If you meet someone you like, why not give it a try? Just be yourself—the topic can be anything, I’m sure.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Why not message him on LINE about something related to what you talked about last time?
For example, if you went out for Italian food with that papa, I might send him a photo of pasta I made myself and write:
“The Italian food you treated me to the other day was so delicious, so I tried making pasta myself today♪ I used ○○ sauce and did this and that…”
Then I’d add a cute, slightly coy sticker.
Or, if he mentioned an author or movie last time, you could say, “I checked it out♡”
You could also ask where he’s from, then message something like:
“I saw an article online today about ○○ in ○○ Prefecture! Is it really like this and that? I’m really interested now♡”
Anything is fine, really.
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If you already have your next date arranged, keep your messages to practical details like the time and place, along with telling him you’re looking forward to it.
Then, when you meet next, feel out—or ask directly—how often he’d like to exchange LINE messages. He may also be wondering what to do and waiting to see how things go.
If you haven’t made plans for your next meeting, send a LINE inviting him to meet, such as, “How does your schedule look? I’m unavailable on this day, but I’m free otherwise.”
The other day, someone said that the female respondents were all old ladies and not helpful, but anyone mature enough should be able to come up with something this basic.
Marika
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