When do you find yourself thinking, “This person is such a kid”?
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How much younger than you can someone be for you to face them solely with romantic feelings, without seeing them as childish or feeling something like a parent toward them?
Once the age gap is more than 20 years, you start thinking they’re a kid, right?
And they probably think you’re an old man too...
Do you date younger people because it seems cheaper, because you think they’re easier to deceive, or because you assume they won’t notice when you lie?
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t date anyone who makes me think negatively, like, “She’s just a kid,” so I’ve never felt that way.
I’m not dating a woman 20 years younger than me, but as Aya says, I’d probably just think, “She’s so young.”
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
At a dating club, I consider women who think about nothing but money to be immature.
It’s such a waste—they’re missing a great opportunity to get to know the man himself.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
With a 20-year age gap, it’s not quite like being his actual daughter, but more like a boss and a new graduate employee, so he probably does think, “She’s young.”
“Kid” doesn’t really have a positive connotation, does it? I doubt many people mean it that negatively.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Seeing someone who doesn’t understand how hard it is to earn money probably won’t end up being cheaper.
Personally, I’ve never treated someone dismissively just because she was younger.
If people think you’re easy to deceive or that you wouldn’t mind being lied to, it’s because you’re looking down on older men.
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I’m guessing the person asking is a woman.
When there’s a 20-year age gap, I end up seeing them all as being like daughters. Someone to protect. I can’t see them as purely romantic partners. That said, even if I see them as daughter-like, we’re not related by blood, so I naturally still develop intimate feelings.
I don’t belittle them by saying things like, “You’re just a kid.” They’re adult women in their own right, so I respect them. Of course I lie—that’s papa-katsu. But in my case, I pay more than double the going rate (at least 100,000 yen pay-per-meeting), so they’re willing to overlook the lies.
There have been several questions like this, but honestly, I find the older men who see their partners as purely romantic women much creepier.
—A loser of a man
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