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Nov 23, 2021 11:06
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I think most people are looking for a partner who’ll have a physical relationship with them, rather than just someone to satisfy their sexual desires.
Just having sex isn’t very exciting. I think many men want a relationship where there’s a genuine emotional connection—where both people care about and look out for each other.
On the other hand, wouldn’t it be scary if they were looking for a platonic relationship, a romantic partner, or even someone to marry?
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I’ve deleted part of the question.
That said, I believe I mentioned that I would hide one-line questions asked purely out of curiosity. If you haven’t read that, then it seems fine to hide them immediately from now on. If warnings serve no purpose, I won’t issue them anymore.
The questioner seems to be treating sexual desire and people as separate things, but why do they need to be separated?
Human beings have all kinds of desires to begin with, and society has rules.
Living within those boundaries seems to me like a normal way of life.
When someone asks a one-line question, it somehow feels as though they’re making fun of me.
So the true intent doesn’t come across in one-line questions. Since it can’t be conveyed, I think it’s appropriate to hide them.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think there are many male members who are only looking to satisfy their sexual desires.
If that were all they wanted, they could have sex at a much lower cost through adult entertainment services.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kaz, a male member.
I’m doing this more for the fun of it than out of sexual desire. Put simply, it’s a way to kill time.
If all I wanted was to satisfy my sexual urges, I think going to a soapland would be an easier and more reliable way to do that.
Since people who only want to satisfy their sexual urges would probably go to a sex-service establishment, I assume there aren’t many for whom sex is the main motivation.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member—and honestly, kind of a loser.
I wouldn’t say there are many, but I think they make up around 3%.
There are probably male members who have only ever made offers to Type A women. I started out specializing in Type B, but now I focus exclusively on Type A.
I’m not saying I have no desire, but I sometimes wonder whether sex is really all that enjoyable. These days, I’m happy just enjoying dates with Type A women.
More precisely, I’m a particularly questionable male member who enjoys the process of dating Type A women and letting the relationship develop into an adult relationship at their request, without ever inviting them myself.
There are many different ways to enjoy a relationship, so I don’t think it’s all about desire.