I’m replying because you left a question in the comments.
It’s not that I have any particular fetish or anything.
With one of them, I simply felt uncomfortable because he was basking in the moment, saying things like, “We came together,” even though I hadn’t actually enjoyed myself.
With the second one, he said he liked using his fingers, but his nails kept catching and it hurt, so I decided it wasn’t for me.
I’m not looking to live extravagantly, and both of them offered an allowance of 3, but that wasn’t an issue for me.
I want a long-term adult relationship (intimate)—a partner who connects with me both physically and emotionally. Is that really impossible?
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I’m looking for a partner for both intimacy and emotional connection—someone I can have a long-term adult relationship (intimate) with. Is that unrealistic?
→ It depends on luck. It’s not impossible.
You need to receive plenty of offers.
The more people you meet, the better your chances of finding someone.
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I’m a male member named Dai.
I don’t think it’s impossible.
I’ve managed to find several partners with whom I can have a long-term adult relationship—both physically and emotionally.
By the way, it sounds like you’ve both ended up with men who only cared about their own pleasure. Though in the second case, you probably should have checked his fingernails before getting intimate.
Just my personal impression, but I suspect that many men who claim to be confident when it comes to fingering are actually not very good at it.
That’s because I think men who are genuinely good with their fingers are usually good at foreplay overall, so they wouldn’t make such a big deal about it.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well.
> I want a partner for both physical intimacy and emotional connection.
I think you’ll meet someone like that if you get more offers.
Usually, the allowance is part of the arrangement, which makes things more complicated. But if you’re not concerned about the allowance, I don’t think it should be impossible to find someone.
If you still can’t find anyone, your standards may simply be too high.
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They’re definitely out there. Basically, the only arrangements I still have are with people like that.
Plus, it’s fun spending time with people who share my interests—those I can enjoy a good meal with, play golf with, or go walking or running with.
There’s only one person I’ve continued seeing because he’s such a wonderful person and I really like him, even though the intimacy isn’t that great.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
When Mac said in his answer that he was somewhat picky, I assumed he meant that he turned down four out of the six offers he received.
I think you’ll find the kind of person you’re looking for if you’re lucky. With that in mind, it seems a shame that you passed on those four opportunities.
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Papier Plane
→ Lets you comfortably enjoy the space between genuine romantic feelings and a transactional relationship.
Shingori
→ A mature playboy with plenty of intimate techniques.
Taro
→ The No. 1 handsome older guy among the answerers.
If an allowance of ¥30,000 works for you, try making a reverse offer to whichever of the above catches your interest.
Loser Guy @ A-only
P.S. I sincerely apologize to all three of you for the incredibly rude comments. m(｡>__<｡)m
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