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Nov 8, 2021 14:15
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I’m a female college student in my early twenties. The papas (male supporters) I see are generally 20–40 years older than me, and I don’t see them as romantic prospects at all. I only view sex as a way to receive my allowance, so even when I’m horny, I don’t think about them.
The people I actually want to have sex with are my friends-with-benefits who are around my age. (I don’t have a boyfriend.)
The papas are more attentive during foreplay, and every one of them gets me off.
But when it comes to the actual sex, it feels better with my friends-with-benefits.
Is it because I don’t see the papas as romantic prospects, so I don’t enjoy it that much or feel like having sex with them?
3 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Are friends-with-benefits partners really your romantic type? You’re just having fun, aren’t you?
If you only want to sleep with men your own age, I think you should quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
For women, it may be a place to receive an allowance, but it’s also a place where both men and women can enjoy an adult relationship (intimate).
茉莉花
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Other
Since a friends-with-benefits arrangement isn’t a romantic relationship either, maybe you simply like young men’s bodies.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
When I’m feeling horny, I want to be intimate with my partner. Since I give her an allowance, I feel less awkward about it.
The reason you might think of a friend with benefits rather than a papa (a male supporter) could be partly due to your preferences, but perhaps it’s also because you feel more at ease when you’re not receiving an allowance.