Tips Oct 25, 2021 05:50

On a first date with a Type B woman, I understand that the basic rule is that an adult relationship (intimate) starts from the second date onward. However, when I find her attractive, I often want to ask about an adult relationship (intimate) from the very first date, so I tend to ask, “Do you have any plans after our date?” If she says she doesn’t have any plans, does that mean she might be open to an adult relationship (intimate) from the first date?

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Would it be better to ask her directly?
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. Let’s wait at least once. I don’t think it’ll work unless the woman takes the initiative and invites you.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t think that’s right. I don’t think it’s a good idea to ask.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well. I think you simply shouldn’t make offers to Type B women. If you feel like making an offer from the very first day, go for a Type C or D woman instead. If you do make an offer to a Type B woman, then have some self-control. What are you, a dog that can’t even sit and wait? Honestly… > I often ask, “Do you have any plans after the date?” If she says she doesn’t have any plans, does that mean an adult relationship (intimate) is possible from the first day? The club tells women to leave at least four hours open for their first date arranged through the club. So if she says she has plans afterward, the man may get angry, and the club may also reprimand her. That’s why the standard response is to say she has no plans. Don’t make up your own interpretation and assume that means an adult relationship (intimate) is okay. So why leave four hours open? It simply means that, rather than an adult relationship (intimate), the man can offer to pay an additional allowance and invite her to do something after the meal, such as: “How about going out for drinks? I’ll give you an additional 30,000 yen.” The first day is strictly a wholesome date only. The exception is when the woman initiates it. If she makes the first move, an adult relationship (intimate) is possible. It’s similar to how the usual thank-you payment, under the name of transportation expenses, is 5,000–10,000 yen. The woman can’t demand 30,000 yen in transportation expenses when saying goodbye after the meal, but the man can say, “I liked you, so I’ll pay you 30,000 yen, and we’ll end the date after the meal.” That is considered acceptable.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. Thinking that an adult relationship (intimate) is on the table from the very first date just because you have nothing planned afterward is quite a self-serving interpretation. You should assume that women with a Type B arrangement generally don’t want to be invited to that on the first date. At most, ask something like, “I’m thinking of offering this much as an allowance—would you be open to an adult relationship (intimate) from our next meeting onward?” From now on, male members will be evaluated too. Be careful not to receive a low rating in the survey and then find that new women turn down your offers afterward.
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