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Oct 24, 2021 12:13
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It makes me feel even worse that he’s keeping it from me,
and I don’t know how I’m supposed to face him the next time we meet.
He always comes over on his days off.
I don’t know if “I hate him” even begins to cover it. I just feel awful.
I don’t think I can see him with the same face as always—
all smiles, saying, “I love you so much. Thank you for everything♡”
What should I do?
4 answers
茉莉花
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Other
I don’t think you’re necessarily the first one, either.
Marika
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Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from “The CEO’s Office,” and I’ll answer this as well.
Since your papa (a male supporter) is renting the apartment for you, I think it might be a good idea to move out and cut off contact for a while.
Taking some time apart may help you sort out your feelings.
Then you can decide whether to end things or resume the relationship.
Whether he clears out the apartment during that time could also give you an idea of how much he cares about you.
Of course, you should take any important belongings with you, but you could leave behind things you wouldn’t mind losing.
If he simply clears everything out without hesitation, perhaps breaking up really is the right choice.
First, cut off contact.
Turn off your phone.
You could also get a new phone so you can stay in touch with other people.
綾瀬なな
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Other
This is Ayase Nana ♡
If you really don’t want to, let’s find another papa.
You probably can’t forgive him anymore.
Maybe you should simply tell your papa that you don’t like it.
あや
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I’m sure everyone has different opinions, but personally, I’d rather clearly express my thoughts and feelings than pretend not to notice, become the convenient woman, and let him take me for granted as someone who’s “safe.” Holding everything in just builds up stress.
If I’m sad, I’ll say I’m sad. If being lied to hurt me, I’ll say that too. In the end, I feel that makes papa (a male supporter) think, “I can’t just neglect her. I need to take proper care of her if I don’t want to lose her.”
That said, you’ll have to decide for yourself whether he’s the type of papa who’ll run away when confronted. This is just what works for me, so judge by his personality and respond accordingly.