Does the way a guy goes down on you change when he starts seeing new women???
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I met my papa (a male supporter) last night for the first time in two weeks, and the way he went down on me had changed. I like being licked gently, and I usually climax pretty quickly that way, but last night my papa was using his whole mouth to suck and lick me. He was licking inside a lot, too.
I couldn’t bring myself to tell him, “That’s not where,” so I couldn’t climax for a long time. But at the end, my papa went down on me the way I like, so I moaned louder, told him it felt good, and let him continue until I climaxed. Things have changed at my papa’s place over the past two weeks, so it seems like he’s started seeing several new women. Could he be doing things the way these new women like?
Did he forget how I like it after just two weeks? Maybe he doesn’t like me that much.
I thought about asking, “Has the way you go down on me changed?” but I decided not to. It felt kind of mean.
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I think you should try saying, “That hurts a little. Could you be gentler?”
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I don’t think he’d keep meeting you—and paying you—if he didn’t like you, so I do think he likes you.
As for why he became like that, I don’t know. Maybe he’d been pent up and got carried away? Maybe he wanted to try being rougher? Or, as you suggest, maybe he was trained to behave that way with another girl. It’s hard to say.
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I’m male member date◎yume.
Perhaps you tried giving her oral attention in different places, both in response to her requests and to keep things from becoming routine?
In the end, she reached the spot that felt best, though she may have expressed herself a little dramatically. Still, I’m glad things settled where they were supposed to（笑）
You probably knew from the start where she would ultimately arrive, and I think papa was trying to finish things off too.
In that sense, I think papa likes her as well.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I assume he learned that particular way of performing oral sex somewhere, but I don’t know whether he picked it up from a new woman.
For example, I currently have four regular partners, and I’ve learned each of their preferred techniques, so I adjust my approach depending on the person.
I wonder what it means when someone who doesn’t change their technique for each woman suddenly starts using suction. Is this new woman the type to say things like, “Suck!” or “Lick inside!”?
I think it would be best to simply say, “I prefer being licked gently.”
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