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Oct 20, 2021 02:29
What impression do you get of a woman who uses personal lubricant on a first meeting?
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I’m a C-type, so I often end up having an adult relationship (intimate) that same day. When I don’t get wet, I apply the personal lubricant I brought before penetration.
It’s not that I don’t get wet every time.
I don’t want to go into too much detail and sound like I’m badmouthing anyone, but I can’t get wet at all when the chemistry during foreplay isn’t right or the man has really bad breath.
When that happens, I just lie there passively, so I think the man can tell that I’m not really in the mood.
If we go straight to penetration, it’s going to be torture, so I always bring lubricant on the day of the date.
Before penetration, I do ask the man for permission first, saying, “Is it okay if I apply this?” But I’m often asked things like, “Wait, why do you have something like that? Are you a sex worker?”
I’ve only ever had a regular day job and have never worked in the adult entertainment industry outside of the club. (Though I suppose it might be similar.)
I’ve never lied by saying things like, “You’re my first offer!” or pretending to have little experience.
Even so, does carrying lubricant give people that kind of impression?
Not every love hotel has personal lubricant, and since it’s my first meeting with someone, I want to be prepared. Is that really a difficult idea for men to understand?
For now, I just brush it off by saying something like, “I used it with my ex too when things weren’t going smoothly, so I thought it was normal.”
I don’t meet someone a second time if I couldn’t get wet with him (and I’m sure he wouldn’t want to see someone who just lies there passively either, haha), so this question is strictly about the first meeting.
