What percentage of papas are married versus single?
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I know what men look for in women varies from person to person, but what kinds of things are they generally looking for?
I once read somewhere that if you asked 100 men, all 100 would want to sleep with 100 different women, whereas women would rather sleep with the same person 100 times.
With that in mind, I’m curious what’s important for maintaining a long-term arrangement.
I’m hoping for a monthly arrangement with my papa. But I often get the feeling that they’re only interested in being intimate. I’d be fine with that too, but some of them don’t ask me anything about myself or talk about themselves, so I can’t tell what they’re looking for. For reference, could you tell me what kind of relationship you’d like to have?
I’m columnist Fuu.
Let me answer your questions.
Regarding married men:
The club’s website has a pie chart showing that 35% of its male members are married.
Regarding intimacy:
I think it depends on the person, but even if you’re intimate with many people, it’s a waste of time and money if you’re not compatible or don’t enjoy it. I’m satisfied with my monthly arrangement, so I don’t want it to end. But if it did, I’d send out lots of offers and look for someone just as good as—or better than—the girl in my monthly arrangement.
Conditions for continuing:
- I like her face and figure
- Personality: not overly focused on money, kind, and smiles a lot
- Intimacy: good physical compatibility, stays close, lets me choose the positions I like, and enjoys it
When we’re in the room, I feel like I tend to continue seeing girls who provide a sense of pretend romance and fulfill my need for validation.
I think women have their own conditions for continuing as well. I hope you find a papa (a male supporter) you can genuinely enjoy spending time with.
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I’m in Seattle.
I assumed it was probably about half married and half single. According to Kazu’s link, though, there are more single men.
It’s a choice between risking them developing genuine feelings and risking an affair.
Some men want to build a relationship beyond intimacy, so maybe try getting into their hobbies, share little things about yourself before they ask, and talk openly with them.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’d say more than 80% of them are probably married.
There are quite a few men on dating clubs who are only after sex, too… They use them almost like amateur escort services. But there are also some who genuinely see women as people and want to build a deeper relationship with them.
With that kind of papa (a male supporter), you should be able to continue seeing each other depending on your compatibility, even if your dates are only at hotels. So I think it’s best to work on your inner qualities and be ready for offers.
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Wouldn’t things last longer if you had something else in common to enjoy besides intimacy?
I play golf every week with one of my papas. Of course, we’re intimate every week too.
With another papa, I go walking or visit the spa at a hotel. Since his work is in my area of expertise, he recently asked me to comment on some materials, and we ended up discussing that as well.
There’s also someone I go motorcycle touring with.
Maybe you should take another look at whether you offer any value beyond intimacy.
Marika
Sorry—I realize female members weren’t the people you wanted answers from.
Incidentally, most of my papas are married.
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I’m a male member who, if there were 100 women, would rather see just one of them—or at most three or four—100 times (or 25–30 times). My username is Paper Airplane.
It’s not so much that I want sex; I live to make women happy.
So I’m looking for an arrangement where I can see a woman enjoying herself and being happy in everything we do—including intimacy…
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
For information about the profiles of male members, please see this:
https://universe-club.jp/women/introduct/
As for what I’m looking for, please refer to my answer to the previous question:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/9176
There may be men who want to sleep with all 100 women if given the chance, but I’d rather take the time to get to know a woman I genuinely enjoy talking to, have good sex with, and share mutual feelings with.
This may sound a bit like Paper Plane’s answer, but I’m not looking for anything specific. I’m looking for a woman with whom things naturally fall into place.
Since we’re not an unpaid couple, I do expect a certain level of consideration toward someone who gives an allowance. But I’m not looking for an act or a sales pitch. Once I sense that kind of salesmanship, everything she says afterward starts to feel like part of the pitch. I’m looking for genuine compatibility and for us to be ourselves.
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