Ladies, does it bother you when your papa calls you by your first name without honorifics?
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For some reason, it’s always the low-paying papas—monthly once or pay-per-meeting 50,000 yen, the kind of arrangements that could end at any time—who act overly familiar and call me that way. It really annoys me.
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I’m Fuu, with a low-paying papa who could cut me off at any time.
I call them by their first names without honorifics, but I’m grateful that, somehow, they’ve stayed with me for three years and a year and a half, respectively.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
At the beginning, I tell my papa (a male supporter), “I’d be happy if you called me this,” so I haven’t had any complaints like that so far.
Even if he calls you by your first name without any honorific, it doesn’t really bother you as long as your papa treats you politely and kindly and gives you a good allowance, right? I get the feeling that the questioner is unhappy about the low allowance and being treated carelessly.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I only refer to people without honorifics in business situations, when mentioning someone from my own company to an outside party, because otherwise I consider it disrespectful.
If someone is annoying, you can simply choose not to date them. If you’re dating him, then that means you’re someone who wants the money badly enough to suck off an annoying guy.
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I’m the paper airplane, a male member.
You may be right—if it’s only a once-a-month relationship, maybe that’s because either side can end it at any time…
I’ve never called anyone by their first name without an honorific.
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