I’d like to know why Mac seems to be in such a good mood from the morning onward. I have a papa (a male supporter) who experiences intense mood swings, and being around him can be exhausting. In the mornings, he ignores me for a while. The allowance is good, but… I wish he could stay in a good mood all the time.
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There are many questions from women who are emotionally unstable, but don’t you also feel that a lot of papas are emotionally unstable too?
The man I was once seriously dating was emotionally abusive. He never got violent, but he would yell at me and make unreasonable demands—it was awful.
Maybe as a reaction to that, all of my current papas are incredibly calm. They’re all kind.
These men have lived for 40, 50, maybe even 60 years. They’re not going to change just because a young woman tells them something now.
If it isn’t making you miserable, you can keep seeing him. But if you feel that the emotional toll isn’t worth the allowance, I think that’s your cue to quit.
Another option is to work on your mental resilience so you don’t let someone being in a bad mood bother you.
You could try telling him how you feel at least once, but I don’t think he’ll change.
Oh, the question was whether there are a lot of emotionally unstable men, right? As I said, all of my papas are genuinely calm and kind.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> Don’t you feel that many papas are emotionally unstable as well?
I think most papas are emotionally stable, but it wouldn’t be surprising if some men were unstable.
The papa himself may be aware of this and perhaps offers a higher allowance because of it.
Well, if it’s something you can tolerate, I think it’s fine to put up with it—but if it reaches a level you can’t tolerate, you shouldn’t force yourself to.
Also, it may be best not to provoke someone who’s emotionally unstable. Doing so could heighten their emotions and make them even more irritable.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Yesterday’s papa (a male supporter) was like that too.
Maybe he was nervous—he seemed fidgety and couldn’t look me in the eye. Maybe he was an M type, I guess. I could’ve had some fun with him, but his allowance was too low, so I said goodbye~
Most of the men I’ve met so far have been in pretty good moods.
If a papa makes you feel like you have to be overly careful around him, it’ll wear you down too, so you’re better off saying goodbye.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve been thinking that there are a lot of unstable papas—or maybe I sometimes end up making them unstable.
There was one papa who became physically unwell after we started seeing each other, but we only went to a hotel twice in two years. Even so, his allowance kept getting higher and higher. Maybe that’s why he became emotionally unwell.
Also, my current handsome older papa started getting a little emotionally unstable the other day when I confronted him about cheating on me—which was actually something from about two months ago. He said, “I’ve treated you so well, worried about you around the clock, and had to do whatever you ask. I’ve spent decades having women follow my lead, and this is the first time a woman has had this much influence over me. It’s hard…”
So I told him, “Don’t let your mental state be shaken by a woman’s every little action. You’re over 20 years older than me, aren’t you?”
Then I added, “I’m sorry for saying something so rude…” and softened my attitude, and he got better.
My papa calls me “such an interesting woman.”
But honestly, I want to be a devoted, obedient mistress—the good-wife-and-wise-mother type.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too.
> Don’t you feel like a lot of papas are emotionally unstable as well?
Not a lot of them, but yes, they do exist.
I get the feeling they’re present in about the same proportion as in society at large, so you should probably assume that people like that exist everywhere.
> I have a papa whose moods swing wildly, and sometimes being around him is exhausting.
Ideally, you’d avoid getting involved with someone like that, but it’s difficult when the allowance is generous.
> He ignores me for a while in the mornings.
At times like that, it might be best to simply act as though you’re alone. Until he speaks to you, pretend you’re the only person in the room.
Wait—if he’s in a bad mood in the morning, is it possible you’ve been calling out another man’s name in your sleep? Is everything okay on that front?
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Just because the man you’re seeing is emotionally unstable doesn’t mean most papas are the same.
I understand wanting him to stay in a good mood all the time, but perhaps you should see it as meaning that he feels comfortable enough around you not to worry about putting on an act.
I’m not Mac, but I’m usually a calm person from the moment I wake up in the morning.
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