I’m the person who asked a question before, and I’d appreciate your advice.
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↑Taking everyone’s answers to this question into consideration, I reached out in mid-July saying, “It’s been a while—how have you been?”
He replied that same day:
“Quite a few things have happened since then… I’d like to make time to talk things over properly, but I can’t find the time right now. I’ll definitely contact you again, so please forgive me.”
I honestly thought he was going to end things with me at that point, so…
However, I still haven’t heard from him even after two months.
He told me he would definitely contact me, and I’ve been waiting ever since, but I can’t shake this uneasy feeling.
I haven’t been able to see him since June. (I haven’t received any allowance.)
Do you think he really will contact me…?
I just can’t figure out what’s going on.
I’ve been feeling unsettled for the past few months…
Would it be a bad idea for me to contact him?
Also, do you think he’s trying to let things fizzle out naturally?
If that were the case, I don’t think he would have said he’d definitely contact me again when I reached out, though…
Sorry for the rambling post!
I’d really appreciate everyone’s advice.
*I re-registered, but I still haven’t met a new papa (a male supporter) yet.
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Hmm…
He may be the kind of man who’s aiming for things to naturally fizzle out, but still feels he has to reply.
If you leave things alone, it’ll probably end that way, so I think you need to be somewhat proactive.
Even if that ends up putting the final nail in the coffin, he seems to have been aiming for a natural fade-out from the start, so the result would be the same.
Something like this might be an interesting strategy:
“My body feels unbearably hot, and just thinking about you gets me wet.
I can’t take it anymore. Please see me once this week and calm my body down. I’m so restless I feel like I’m going to lose it.
This is your responsibility too, Mr. ○○. I was perfectly normal before I met you, so take responsibility.
I’m really struggling here.
I’m free this week on ○ day at ○ o’clock, or ○ day at ○ o’clock.
Please take responsibility and meet me.”
Something along those lines, perhaps?
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I’m in Seattle.
I took it to mean he was hoping things would naturally fizzle out. But he doesn’t dislike you enough to cut things off immediately, and the others are busy.
If you’re really in a bind, I feel like you might have about a 40% chance if you ask politely and make a sincere effort. If you do nothing, I think it’ll naturally fizzle out.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
She’s still replying to your messages, so I don’t think she’s intentionally trying to fade away.
If it’s only been about three months since you last met, try not to rush things and wait for her to get in touch.
Since you’re also looking for another man in the meantime, I hope you find someone who’s a good match.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’s worth reaching out without expecting too much. It doesn’t seem like he’s deliberately trying to let things fade out, but he’s probably busy with other things or other women.
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