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Aug 25, 2021 11:54
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this too.
This is something you’re better off dealing with before it gets to that point.
For example:
“If I’m driving on the highway at 100 km/h and a wall suddenly appears right in front of me, what should I do?”
In that situation, the laws of physics mean it’s already impossible to avoid. But a wall doesn’t normally just appear out of nowhere.
If it did happen, there would have been some prior cause—like falling asleep at the wheel.
With that in mind, if you realize you were merely led to develop feelings and treated as a convenient hole, you may end up having no choice but to wait for your feelings to heal.
So I think it’s better to focus on taking steps beforehand to avoid being reduced to someone’s convenient hole, manipulated into developing feelings.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
When it comes to preventing it from happening again, I find it easier to accept that you’re 100% at fault for being deceived.
Because if you blame the other person, you’ll just fall for the same kind of scam again.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I don’t think it was simply a matter of being made to develop romantic feelings. I believe there were genuine feelings at the time, but while one person’s feelings continued, the other person’s changed.
Maybe it’s important to notice those changes quickly—or to recognize someone whose feelings are unlikely to change. Relationships between men and women are complicated, aren’t they?
For now, I think you should take a breath and face the new person who comes into your life.
P.S.
Oh, come to think of it, Kazu-san is making an appearance today. I’m looking forward to it.
Sorry this has nothing to do with the question (sweat).
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
This can happen in ordinary relationships too, not just papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), right?
Usually, time will heal things.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think you should just remember that you were receiving an allowance.