Sorry for asking such a personal question.
My labia seem to be the type that stretch a lot. Looking at various websites, I hardly ever see anyone like that, and even in videos, I’ve never seen anyone whose labia stretch as much as mine.
Are large labia a turnoff, especially in a virgin?
I don’t have a boyfriend, but I’m working hard to lose weight, get hair removal, and become more beautiful.
I’ve also read that surgery is an option.
I’d appreciate any advice.
I’m Shingo Lee, a column writer.
I’m not involved in the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) scene, so I’ve been with many women, and naturally, I’ve also been with quite a few virgins.
To put it simply, you’re incredibly thoughtful and self-aware, and that’s wonderful. At the same time, though, please try not to worry too much.
**“My labia might stretch”:**
I’ve seen all kinds of labia. Some women’s protrude more than others, and there’s really no need to worry about it. It’s not as though there’s a particular shape that people dislike—it’s simply individuality. So please don’t be concerned.
**“I don’t have a boyfriend, but I’m dieting, getting hair removal, and doing my best to become more beautiful”:**
That’s wonderful. Very few virgins actually make an effort to groom themselves in preparation for the day. Comparatively speaking, many leave their body hair completely untrimmed.
With that kind of mindset and just a little initiative, you’ll be able to enjoy a wonderful sex life before you know it. I guarantee it!
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I’m Dai, a male member.
When I had sex with a woman like that, I only thought that her labia were quite large while I was going down on her.
I definitely don’t think surgery is necessary.
There are probably plenty of admirers of virgins in their mid-20s, so if she registered with a club, she’d likely receive lots of offers.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering as well.
As for women who grow significantly over time… Men with plenty of experience with women, such as those registered with Universe, have probably met quite a few like that.
They may be a small percentage, but if 5% are the type who grow, then there would be 50,000 among one million women.
I don’t think you need to worry about it that much. That said, if you’re concerned about how a man with little experience with women might react, choose someone experienced, and he probably won’t care at all.
I hope you meet a good man.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
First of all, it’s “labia,” not “hidden lips,” right? I have no idea what you’d have to type to get “hidden lips” as a conversion result, but when you Google “hidden lips,” you still get regular search results for “labia,” so maybe it’s a fairly common mistake.
As for your question, I’ve seen quite a few labia in my time, but I’ve never stopped seeing someone because I thought, “I don’t like these.” So don’t worry. You don’t need surgery either. Although, if you don’t mind pain, why not get a piercing or something instead?
As an aside, there was one person who thought, “I like the way your labia look.” I never told her, though. It lasted for several years. Thank you.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t think men are that concerned about it. But if it really bothers you, I hear that one of the female doctors at Tokyo Central Cosmetic Surgery specializes in that procedure, so why not at least go in for a consultation? Apparently, plenty of women decide against having it after the consultation.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There’s no need to worry. Some women are more pronounced down there, too. As long as there’s no odor, it’s not a problem at all. Having larger labia isn’t something men dislike.
Some women occasionally say they’re thinking about having surgery to change their shape, but personally, I think it’s better not to if it bothers you that much. If there are no functional issues, I think it’s perfectly fine to leave things as they are.
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I’m Nana Ayase ☆
Is it beautiful to look like everyone else? No, I don’t think so. I believe individuality is important too.
I saw something like this in an adult video once:
I’ve seen nipples about as thick as a sausage and roughly two finger joints long. Some people get incredibly excited by that.
There are also people who like sucking on the folds down there, so don’t worry about it. Just think of it as having something uniquely erotic about you.
And when you say you want surgery to improve the shape, you mean cosmetic surgery, right?
A former healthcare worker answers:
After the surgery, once you’ve gone home and are in recovery, how are you supposed to pee? It hurts—probably for about two weeks. Even showering hurts. Can you really endure that?
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