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Aug 24, 2021 12:52
5 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer as well.
If by “getting out” you mean ending the relationship, then I think breaking things off should be fairly simple.
Then you can look for a new papa (a male supporter). That way, you can build a relationship where you properly receive your allowance.
Other
Once things have gone that way, I think it’s difficult to go back to an allowance-based arrangement. Try asking anyway, and if it doesn’t work out, be prepared to end things.
Marika
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Have you developed feelings for this fuck buddy—or married man? Or is the sex so good that you can’t walk away?
To broaden your horizons, why not join a dating club and meet some men?
When I asked a woman who’d had a fuck buddy before, “Aren’t you going to find another one?” she replied, “There’s no need when I can have fun, enjoy sex, and receive an allowance now.”
Other
I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
It seems you’re able to analyze yourself objectively. That probably makes this even harder for you.
You likely already realize this yourself, but I’m going to say it anyway: taking that first step will make things easier for you in the long run.
People can only hold on to someone through their own appeal. You’re tied to this person because of their appeal, but they aren’t tied to you by yours—which means you’re simply someone convenient for them.
The way to turn this situation around is to say, “I’m ending this.”
If they can’t bear the thought of losing you, they’ll come back. If you were truly nothing more than a convenient partner to them, then that will be the end of it.
Either way, taking that first step now is what’s best for you.
Today, you’re the youngest you’ll ever be. Move on while you’re still one day younger.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
By “a mistress with no allowance,” do you mean an affair partner who doesn’t receive any allowance?
Either way, if you’re struggling financially, I think you should simply say that you need an allowance. However, if the relationship started without any allowance from the beginning, it may be difficult to start receiving one now.
If by “getting out” you mean wanting to end the relationship, I think you should just tell him you want to break up.