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Aug 19, 2021 19:24
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I’m Nana Ayase ☆
I recently hid someone too.
A man told me, “You probably get plenty of other offers,” so I thought, “Fine, then I’ll just hide everyone I’ve met so far,” and did exactly that…
I mean, I can’t keep waiting around for people when there’s no guarantee of seeing them again and I don’t even know when they’ll contact me next.
I’m sorry…
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
A male member’s paper airplane.
You’re way too good at picking girls who are already used to these clubs...
You have absolutely no eye for it...
You need to sharpen your sense for finding girls who are actually your type...
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If she hasn’t told you directly that she hid you, I’m curious how you were able to confirm it.
For reference, I keep the women I’ve made offers to and am still seeing in my favorites, and so far only one woman has hidden me. (I confirmed it directly with her.)
She said she does that with every man to prevent being identified.
Unless she’s hiding you specifically, it shouldn’t really affect your motivation, should it?
Why not ask her directly?
If you haven’t told her to quit the club or not see other papas, there’s no need for her to fake leaving the club, so I think she’ll be honest with you.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha, I know how you feel.
Well, it’s all right. You’ll see how things turn out in time.
If you both feel good about it, the relationship will continue. If not, it will come to an end.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
That’s just a recent trend. It doesn’t mean anything beyond that, so don’t worry.
Lately, I’ve also been getting hidden a lot, even when I haven’t said anything, lol.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
Oh, it’s not that the system started hiding profiles after a date recently...
For a while, the staff did that out of consideration, but then men complained, asking why they could no longer see the women’s profiles. So staff were no longer allowed to hide profiles after dates.
But that was several years ago, so perhaps some staff members still do it.
Besides, do men really not realize that wanting to keep looking at a woman’s profile forever is disrespectful to her? This isn’t a zoo.
I think people should try to view things from a more equal standpoint.
If you were the one being photographed in all kinds of poses, with those photos displayed in the member directory for women who hadn’t made offers to see, and even after you made an offer, women could see whenever you changed your profile or photos—
Wouldn’t that bother you?
Normally, once you’ve gone on a date, you’ve achieved your purpose, so I think the proper approach would be to hide your profile from the person you went on the date with.