They say they don’t want to “waste it,” so they pull out, give me dirty foreplay with their terrible-smelling breath, then put it back in… over and over. In the end, they get tired and miss their chance to finish. It’s honestly so uncool, lol.
I wish they’d think about the physical strain on me, too.
To be honest, sex with you isn’t particularly pleasurable or fun for me from the start. I’m enduring it for the money, so my real feeling is: just finish already.
How can I stop men from dragging things out like that? Please tell me if there’s anything I can say or do without hurting their feelings. Thank you.
Oh wow… that’s the worst kind.
I feel so sorry for you.
You’re really putting up with a lot.
I hold his waist with my legs.
But when someone’s breath really stinks, there’s honestly not much you can do, is there? Maybe brush your teeth together every time, or give him breath-freshening tablets…
Hang in there.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
You really can’t stand the man you’re seeing, but you’re forcing yourself to put up with him anyway, right?
I’m sure ejaculating too quickly would be incredibly embarrassing for him, though…
There’s no way to make a man unable to hold back ejaculation through words or actions alone. The only thing I can think of is having the woman keep moving in the cowgirl position until he ejaculates involuntarily.
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Maezawa from the president’s office here as well.
> How can I stop a man from deliberately holding back like that?
If he’s trying to pull out, it seems like you could simply hold on tightly with all your strength so he can’t, and then move quickly yourself. That should get him there.
Alternatively, you could improve your oral techniques and bring him to climax that way.
With some basic techniques, I feel like you should be able to control the situation.
That said,
> “I’m only doing this because I need the money.”
is a bit off-putting.
I think most men would rather you didn’t do it if you had to force yourself.
One advantage of a dating club is that you can say no, so I’m not sure it’s a good idea to go through with something you’re uncomfortable doing.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
That sounds really tough. You’re doing your best, and that’s admirable.
When he’s about to pull out, say, “It feels good, so don’t pull out,” and hold his hips down with your hands or legs. Say things like “More,” “I’m going to come,” or “That feels so good” to get him excited and make him finish sooner.
Men are simple, so seeing a woman act like she’s enjoying herself turns them on. If your papa (a male supporter) hasn’t noticed how you really feel, he probably isn’t perceptive enough to see through your acting, so why not give it a try?
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
It feels so good〜 I want to keep enjoying that feeling for even longer.
When I say, “Ahh, that feels so good〜,” and stop, move inside with little squeezes ♡ Sometimes the man may climax.
Or… I want us to climax together♡ Say, “Let’s come together,” in a sexy, cute way♡
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think you should squeeze really tightly while he’s inside. To keep him from pulling out, you can wrap your legs around his waist.
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