If you keep having the same area of your face cosmetically altered, won’t it end up looking unbalanced and unnatural?
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The woman I’m dating recently had her nostrils reduced without telling me. Since everyone is constantly wearing masks because of the coronavirus, the scars won’t be noticed, so apparently the timing was perfect.
It’s true that she has a rounded nose and has apparently been self-conscious about how wide it looks from the front for years, so I do think her nose looks better after having her nostrils narrowed. But now she says, “Now that my nostrils are smaller, I’m bothered by the round, bulbous tip, so I want to have that reduced too.”
She also has a fairly large, round face, so I feel that making her nose any smaller would throw off the balance with the rest of her features and make her look unnatural. More than anything, though, I feel she’s just one step away from becoming dependent on cosmetic surgery, and I want to stop her. What would you say in my position?
I’m Dai, a male member.
No matter what you say to a woman who wants cosmetic surgery, she’ll probably go through with it anyway.
If you were her boyfriend or husband-to-be, you might be able to talk her out of it, but she’s unlikely to listen just because you’re a man she’s seeing through an arrangement.
If anything, she may see you as an annoying, preachy old man and end things with you.
Just say nothing. If she gets surgery and you don’t like the result, you can simply end things.
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It really doesn’t seem to be stopping anymore…
Could it be that the woman is rather plump?
Wouldn’t things look a little better if she lost some weight?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If she were constantly getting work done on one thing after another besides her nose and pouring most of her income into it, that would be concerning. But that’s not the case, right? Then I don’t think it’s reached the level of cosmetic surgery addiction. It’s not uncommon for women with concerns like that to have surgery several times, and it’s perfectly possible to balance it with normal life.
Also, women who obsess over cosmetic surgery get huge rushes of feel-good chemicals from their brains, so the chances of them stopping just because their papa tells them to are pretty slim. Give up and watch over her with lukewarm affection.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think she’s merely on the verge of becoming addicted to plastic surgery—I think she already is. That said, her face and her life are hers to do with as she pleases, so I wouldn’t say anything if I were in your position. If you’re not happy with it, the only option is to part ways.
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