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Aug 3, 2021 10:36
6 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office here with an answer as well.
Some people may find it boring when everything goes exactly as they want.
In that case, with a woman who says, “I’m dinner only,” you don’t make the first move. Instead, you keep going on dates and wait for her to say something like:
“I don’t have to go home tonight.”
or
“I’d be okay with going to a hotel after this.”
Some people may find meaning in seeing whether they can improve themselves enough to reach that point.
迷わない70代
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中（笑）
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I’m a lost soul in my 60s.
My first Type A offer was to a freshman who had just started university. She’s now a third-year student preparing for job hunting.
The dinner date she’d been asking for finally happened the other day, after a year apart, and she had grown into exactly the wonderful woman I’d hoped she would.
These days, I feel truly happy knowing I made the right choice in offering to support her—I wanted to see how she would grow（笑）
Of course, I’ve continued escorting her as a Type A all along（汗）
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Lately, I’ve been thinking about making an offer to a Type A woman, and I’ve added one Type A woman to my favorites.
It’s not like I’m hoping for a one-night chance or anything. I simply want to enjoy going on dates.
But I’m not willing to give an allowance to a woman who thinks, “There’s no way I’d ever get into a deeper relationship with an old guy like you…”
I imagine Type A women, in particular, come in all kinds.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikouki, a male member.
Maybe I’d be considered option ①, but that’s about it…
If you assume there are no inherent adult expectations or presumptions between men and women, then perhaps I’m option ③, “other”…
It’s just like casually going on a date with a woman outside the club—there are no fixed expectations between men and women, but there’s always a possibility. Nothing more, nothing less.
And the chance of things progressing to a hotel is far lower than it would be outside the club.
Other
Universe Club Customer Success
Aizawa here.
From a staff perspective, I feel that many men are thinking, “It would be nice if this could eventually become a Type 1, if things happen to work out,” while starting from Type 2.
They think, “I want to meet her because she’s beautiful! I’m fine even if there’s no relationship, but if things naturally deepen and we can eventually have that kind of relationship, I’d certainly be happy.” That’s generally the idea.
Some men offer to Type A women because they feel uncomfortable with Type C women who are open to relationships with someone they don’t know. Others make offers based simply on whether they like the woman, regardless of her relationship type, because they feel lonely eating alone while away on business.
That said, everyone’s circumstances and situation can differ each time they make an offer, so I think the accurate answer is that there are various reasons.
I don’t personally know anyone who only makes offers to Type A women.
However, if you make an offer solely with the intention of pursuing a Type 1 relationship, you may receive a complaint—or at least negative feedback—and your rating as a male member may drop, so please be careful.
After all, Type A women are specifically stating that relationships are not an option.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
My main reason was ②: I wanted to talk with beautiful women who were my type. After meeting them in person, I realized there are plenty of women in the B–D categories who are just as wonderful, if not more so, so I haven’t made any offers since.
Lately, though, I’ve started thinking that women in the A category might be fine too, as long as they’re okay with an allowance far lower than what’s typical for an adult relationship, since I don’t want to increase the number of partners I have an intimate relationship with.
The reason I’d offer such a much lower allowance is that, if it were close to an adult-relationship allowance even for dinner-only dates, I’d feel bad toward the partners who are also intimate with me.