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Jul 31, 2021 10:08
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One of the men asked me, just a minute after we met, “How many offers have you been getting?” I thought it was a rather rude question, but I answered, “About 10.” He replied, “Wow! There are so many more male members now that the numbers have evened out with the female members, so I guess getting that many offers has become normal! That would’ve been unheard of two years ago—you’d be lucky to get two!”
Since I had re-registered, and previously received only eight offers over three months, I’ve always thought that offers come when they come and don’t when they don’t. I also assumed that some women might not receive many if their photos weren’t particularly flattering. This time, I think my photos and profile comments came across fairly well, which may be why I received more offers than before.
But these days, is getting around 10 offers really just normal? Are all women receiving that many as a matter of course?
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer this one too.
> “That would’ve been impossible two years ago, and even if they did come, you’d only get about two offers!”
That guy is really making things up.
Even two years ago, women who were going to get offers were getting them. Some women received more than 10 offers in their very first month after registering.
So saying it was “impossible” is just ridiculous…
He’s being way too careless with the facts. (笑)
> “Before, I barely got eight offers in three months.”
Now you’re getting 10 in two weeks.
That’s pretty impressive.
One reason offers have increased is that there are more male members now. The number of men may have doubled.
(I haven’t actually checked the figures, though. 笑)
As for women, I’d say the number is about the same as two years ago, or maybe up by around 10%.
Because of COVID, some women are staying home and not participating as actively.
So I think popular women are getting roughly twice as many offers as before.
I’m specifically talking about “popular women.”
Even if the number of men increased tenfold, most of them would still approach the popular women. Their offers might increase tenfold, but women who aren’t as popular wouldn’t necessarily see much of an increase.
It’s probably the same with dating apps, too…
Though with apps, there’s no setup fee, so some men may simply try to meet women one after another.
That may be the difference.
> “Is getting 10 offers these days really considered normal?”
For popular women, it might be.
> “Does every woman normally get 10 offers?”
Even now, 40% of women don’t receive any offers.
That said, I can see why you might wonder, “Isn’t this just bragging?”
Maybe you were also checking whether it was okay to brag about it.
If you’ve received 10 offers, I think it’s perfectly fine to be proud of that. But you should probably keep in mind that women are getting about twice as many offers as before.
Otherwise, once you start bragging, it could turn into a competition, with everyone saying, “I got offers too! Me too!”
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
Offers are extremely unevenly distributed, so even among women who re-register or have new photos taken, some receive several offers almost every day.
For the women I make offers to, getting 10 or 20-plus offers within one or two weeks seems pretty normal.
How many people they actually meet varies depending on the circumstances.
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
You’d better run while you can. Keep making such disrespectful remarks and you’ll get beaten to a pulp by a mob, lol.
Seriously, get out of there now!
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s great that you’ve received so many offers.
With more male members joining, it’s certainly possible that popular women are receiving more offers. If you’ve received around ten offers, cherish those connections.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Didn’t you look at the other questions before posting? There was a question just three posts ago from someone saying she wasn’t getting any offers, wasn’t there?
How self-centered can you be? Maybe you just wanted to brag.