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Jul 30, 2021 23:14
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, too.
> Would sending something like this turn him off?
Yes, it would.
You shouldn’t ask for it directly.
So, what do the people who get things bought for them do?
I explain all the details in my online salon, “Maezawa’s Papa-Katsu Innovation,” which I run myself. The monthly fee is ¥10,000.
Once you join, you’ve practically already won at papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Let’s become winners.
The URL is
Wait!
It was just another dream.
I dreamed I’d created an online salon.
Maybe I’ll actually make one this time?
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
That would definitely kill the mood. I’d probably message her on LINE right then and say that I don’t think we should continue seeing each other.
Personally, I feel that gifts only have meaning when they’re a surprise…
For example, after an adult relationship (intimate), I might say, “I actually bought a cake from a famous hotel and kept it chilled in the fridge for you.”
They aren’t expensive gifts, but the women I’m seeing regularly are happy to receive them.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Start by sending him a product link and saying, “Isn’t this super cute? Do you think it would suit me?”
Then say something like, “I want to see it in person, so would you come with me to the department store?” and arrange to meet there.
After that, you just have to read the situation and see whether he offers to pay. How does that sound?
In my case, the moment the meeting place becomes a department store, I bring extra money, just in case. They all know exactly what they’re doing—and that I’m the kind of man who picks up on hints…
I even take on that slight sense of guilt they may feel, like, “Would he be annoyed if I asked directly? Is it wrong of me?” That’s how I approach it.
The good thing about this strategy is that you can find out whether he’s the kind of man who can read the situation and pay, whether he values appearances and chivalry, or, more simply, whether he’s generous with money.
Once you know that tendency, you can probably apply it to various other situations too, so it should come in handy.
Other
Buy it with the allowance and say, “I bought this with the allowance you gave me. Thank you as always.”
Right?
Marika
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
A girl who’s good at asking for things would probably ask for sandals that cost about that much—enough to buy around ten pairs.
Try to become the kind of woman who looks gorgeous in anything, even GU or Uniqlo.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Their beggar mentality is such a turnoff. I find myself thinking, “Buy it yourself.”