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Jul 22, 2021 11:43
4 answers
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Even with women in Type B, I discuss the future allowance during the first date.
I first get a sense of whether the next date will likely be dinner only (no intimacy) or could develop into an adult relationship (intimate), and then I suggest the allowance for the respective situation.
Just as I wouldn’t tell a woman who seems likely to develop into an adult relationship, “This is about how much it would be for dinner only,” I think it’s probably better not to tell a woman who seems likely to stick to dinner only, “This is about how much it would be for an adult relationship.”
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
In my case, I don’t bring up the allowance on the first date. If I like her, I simply focus on arranging another date.
Beyond that, it really varies too much from person to person, so it’s a pain to write about. I handle things differently depending on the woman.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who goes by “Paper Airplane.”
I think it depends on what kind of relationship or arrangement you’re looking for.
Do you want to discuss and agree on the allowance in advance, then move on to an adult relationship (intimate)?
Or, since you’re a Type B, would you rather build trust first without placing too much emphasis on the allowance?
If you’re looking for the kind of arrangement typically associated with a club, the former would probably suit you. If you’d prefer to avoid women who are too focused on or particular about the allowance, then the latter may be better.
I believe there are different types of people on both sides, so it’s best to consider the kind of relationship—and the kind of woman—you’re looking for before deciding.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
> Should I make sure to discuss the allowance for future adult relationships and dinner dates?
Yes, you should.
However, talk about other things while you’re eating. Since it’s a date, you first need her to see you as someone fun and pleasant to be around.
So during the meal, treat it as an actual date and focus on having a good time together without bringing up the allowance.
Once you’re both nearly finished eating—or have just finished—and she seems more relaxed, that’s when I recommend discussing the allowance for future meetings.
The allowance is what matters.
There’s no need to talk about wishes like wanting a long-term relationship or wanting things to become like a romantic relationship.