Tips
Jul 19, 2021 08:37
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He keeps saying, “This week is difficult…” even though we had been seeing each other once a week.
If he’s busy with work, I’m thinking I could go near his workplace to collect it. Does anyone have any good suggestions?
Even if he’s stopped seeing me because there’s another woman, he did say he would keep his promise regarding the previous meeting, so I’d really like him to settle that properly…
5 answers
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
It sounds like he had no intention of giving her an allowance. If he’s a male member of the club, please leave feedback about him.
If he had genuinely forgotten to give her the allowance, he would deal with it immediately—by delivering it in person according to her schedule or sending it by bank transfer, for example.
Other
He sounds like a scammer.
Is he a member of Universe? There isn’t much we can do besides leave feedback, but let’s go ahead and do that.
Marika
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Not receiving the allowance that day was definitely a mistake. From now on, make sure you always receive your allowance on the same day.
Please report this to the club through their information-sharing system. Honestly, he should be forcibly removed from the club. That’s awful.
The chances are slim, but if you know where he works, you might try saying, “I’m nearby—please send my allowance.”
I hope you receive offers from other good papas (male supporters).
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t have any good suggestions. I think you should cut ties with that papa and, from now on, only date people who give you your allowance upfront.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well.
When you were meeting once a week, were you only meeting for dinner?
And when things became an adult relationship (intimate), are you saying you didn’t receive the allowance that day?
Unfortunately, it may be difficult to get the money from him now.
You had been able to meet once a week, but if he suddenly won’t meet you anymore, it’s because he no longer intends to pay.
Being busy with work is just an excuse. Even if you tell him you’ll come near him to collect it, I doubt he’ll tell you where to go.
For now, though, I’d like you to contact the club first. Please don’t get emotional—just give them feedback calmly, focusing on the facts and how hurt you are, something like:
“I’m very upset because after we became intimate, he didn’t give me the allowance he promised. I never imagined there would be a man at Universe who wouldn’t keep his word.”
We can’t recover the money for you, and if you ask us to forcibly ban him, we can’t make that decision without hearing his side as well.
However, once the staff hear that you weren’t paid, they’ll naturally wonder what happened and ask the man about it.
Even if we say we don’t get involved in free relationships, we can’t simply ignore a man who acts dishonestly.
The staff can at least contact him and tell him to keep his promise. If he says, “That has no legal force, does it?” then there isn’t much we can do for you.
Even so, we can forcibly ban someone like that from the club. That may prevent other women from being victimized.
A man who doesn’t keep his promises is cowardly.