I’d like some advice about contacting someone I turned down once. A man who made me an offer for the first time recently asked how much allowance I wanted. When I told him what I receive from my other papas, he said he’d pay double that if I would be exclusive to him. I didn’t want to end things with my other two papas, so I turned him down. He said that if he couldn’t have me exclusively, then they should end things, and that was the end of it between us. I’ve started to feel like I may have missed out. Would it be okay to contact him again?

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too. I think it’s fine to contact him, but compared with being on equal footing before, you’re probably now in a slightly weaker position. At first, he said he would pay double. But if you call him, your allowance might be reduced, and he may ask you to prove that you really broke up. The terms could become stricter. If you’re confident you can handle things smoothly, then I suppose you could try dating all three men discreetly. But the fact that you couldn’t do that right away, and that you had to ask about it here, makes me feel like you’d probably get found out pretty quickly. If you want to somehow put yourself back on equal footing this time, you could say something like: “I’m sorry about the other day. After thinking it over, I realized that if we tried dating, I might want to be with only you. Would you be willing to give it a try for a while? And if I end up falling for you, I’ll want to be exclusive with you. But even if I do fall for you, I’d still like you to give me an allowance.” That’s the kind of approach I have in mind. However, if he’s the type of man who wants you all to himself, he might just end the conversation with: “What do you mean by ‘give it a try’? You don’t have to force yourself.” Hmm… It’s difficult. It’s a shame, but in the first place, cutting off other men for only about double the allowance is the riskier choice. So I think it may be better to give up on this one.

I’m Ayase Nana ♡ Quickly message your papa: “I’m sorry. It was my fault. I’ll make you my only one, so please don’t abandon me.” If that doesn’t work, give up. Besides, you don’t even know if he’ll really pay double. There are plenty of generous papas out there, so move on to the next one.

I’m Aya, a female member. Reaching out might give him a slightly negative impression, but since he liked you in the first place, he might actually welcome hearing from you. I honestly think it could go either way, so why not give it a try until you feel satisfied?

I'm Kazu, a male member. I think it’s fine to reach out, but whether she’ll respond is another matter. If you tell her that you regret letting a good opportunity slip away, she might be willing to accept your apology.