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Jul 17, 2021 13:32
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You’ve mentioned things like liking their looks, appreciating their kindness, and feeling cherished,
but isn’t it really just because they give you money and let you live luxuriously? That’s what it comes down to, right?
If they didn’t give you money, you wouldn’t fall for them or even go on dates with them, would you?
So, would it be fair to say that you don’t actually love the papa (a male supporter) himself—you just love the money?
6 answers
Meg
Female
Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
If that were the case, I would’ve said goodbye long ago. (dead serious)
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
That’s unfortunate. With that mindset, you probably won’t find a good papa or have a good relationship. Assuming you’re a female member, I might make you an offer if you were cute, but I definitely wouldn’t continue seeing you.
The papas who register with dating clubs are generally more socially successful than average and have enough financial means to at least afford the membership fee. Many of them also have appealing qualities. Some are good-looking, well-built, kind, and genuinely considerate toward women.
Can’t you imagine that women who aren’t all about money and who engage with them sincerely as people are valued by those papas?
Financial support is a basic premise of these relationships. That’s the whole foundation of dating clubs. So I hope female members will enjoy the club by liking money, liking their papas, and liking intimacy too.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
Someone like that would probably be the right match for a person who thinks the way you do.
First, you need to imagine this:
“I love him even if he doesn’t spoil me. Even if he didn’t give me any money, I’d still like him and want to go on normal dates with him.”
You’re not going to meet a woman who genuinely feels that way.
Other
By most people’s standards, I have a decent income, a respectable social position, a happy family, and bright children…
But it’s hard to meet someone truly wonderful through work or in my local circles—and even when I do, I can’t carelessly pursue anything.
That’s exactly why I meet people through a dating club.
So naturally, the allowance becomes less important.
Akari
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Another person who only ever says:
“So, does that mean ○○ is ○○?”
Same old routine.
So persistent.
Way too persistent.
If you’re posting here because you can’t get attention anywhere else, please stop.
You call it a question, but it isn’t a question at all—just nitpicking.
They may be enjoying themselves, thinking:
“If you say this, then that means… right? Hahaha!”
But even if you write “Question,” it doesn’t make it one.
If all you want to do is state your opinion, please do it somewhere else.
Normally, this kind of post would be hidden, but that creates a dilemma because then I can’t get the message across.
Well, I think it got through to them.
Other
My favorite papa (a male supporter) gave me ¥1 million upfront right at the beginning and said, “I don’t want us to keep calculating an allowance for every meeting, so let me know if you ever need more.”
If we calculated it on a pay-per-meeting basis, it would probably have exceeded ¥1 million by now, but I haven’t received anything since then. My papa covers the cost of our dates, but I pay my own transportation expenses, which do add up.
I guess that’s just how it is when you really like someone.
Marika
By the way, are you a man or a woman, Koto de Yoroshii Desu ka?