Have you ever been disappointed by a man you were seeing?
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Lately, I feel like her attitude toward me has become colder than before.
I’m asking because I’d like to understand how women feel and find out whether I might have done something to upset her.
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> Lately, I feel like she’s been colder toward me than before.
Something must have happened, so I think you should try being kinder and more considerate than before.
That said, for example, if you had always been doing it without protection, it’s possible that something prompted her to decide she no longer wants to do that. In that case, it may not be an issue with the person asking the question.
She may be at the stage where she’s debating whether or not to bring it up, so I think you should have a proper conversation.
I once heard about a woman who broke up with a man who was great in bed, well-endowed, handsome—in other words, seemingly perfect.
Her reason was: “If I keep dating him, I might end up getting pregnant.”
I thought, “That’s the reason?” But from her perspective, it was probably an important issue.
Men may assume that since everything has been fine so far, it will continue to be fine. But women’s feelings can suddenly change, so it’s something to be mindful of.
Of course, this is only one example.
There could be many other reasons as well.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
It’s quite common for someone’s circumstances to change. Maybe the questioner did something wrong, or it may simply be due to the other person’s situation. If she’s someone you really like, do your best until the very end. If things still don’t improve and it falls through, accept that it couldn’t be helped and move on to the next relationship. That ability to take action right away is one of the great things about dating clubs. Let’s look for an even better girl!
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
When that happens, don’t pry or ask unnecessary questions, and don’t change your attitude toward her. If anything, make a conscious effort to be extra kind. Keep doing that while waiting for her mood to improve. Be considerate and stay by her side.
If you’re worried about the reason, once she seems to be feeling better, it’s safest to gently test the waters by saying, “I was actually worried because you didn’t seem like yourself. I thought maybe I’d done something. If I was the cause, I’m truly sorry.”
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Since it’s a relationship between two people, I think these things naturally happen from time to time. If I feel that a woman is starting to lose interest, I make a point of asking her.
You won’t find the answer by asking complete strangers here.
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