I'm a female member. A certain number of papas (male supporters) go silent even after setting a date for our next meeting. I make time off work and adjust my schedule to honor these plans, and in some cases, I’ve even paid for my own plane ticket when we agreed to take a trip (of course, I wasn’t reimbursed for the cancellation fee). If they have no intention of meeting, they simply shouldn’t make promises in the first place. When it comes to trips, I can’t help but feel that it’s particularly malicious. What on earth are they thinking? Also, although I assume this is ultimately an issue between the two people involved and would be considered a matter of personal responsibility, should I report this to the club?

Maezawa from the president’s office here with an answer as well. > Should I report this to the club? I think it would be better if you did. The club generally can’t force people to pay money related to the consensual dating aspect of the relationship (though things like flight cancellation fees may be different). Even so, if it’s reported immediately afterward, they may at least say something like, “Could you please discuss this properly with the other person?” Naturally, if a man causes a lot of trouble, he becomes someone the club doesn’t want using its services. The first step would be to stop introducing good women to him. If similar incidents happen with too many different women, he’ll be forcibly expelled. Actually, if the women submit the lowest possible rating in their feedback, the system is now automatically tallied, so I believe four identical ratings would result in automatic expulsion. Of course, he would probably be given a chance to explain himself. But if four people in a row give him the lowest rating, I don’t think there’s much he could say in his defense. Women shouldn’t feel bad about giving a man the lowest rating when they feel he isn’t someone other women should meet. Please do so properly. I think that will help protect other women as well. P.S. Come to think of it, there was a man who was on the verge of being forcibly expelled. He was told, “If you do this again, you’ll be expelled,” but even his next date after that warning received a bad review. The staff looked like, “┐(´д｀)┌ Seriously?” Do men who don’t change even after being warned think, “There’s no way I’ll actually be expelled,” or “I’m paying, after all”? Well, it is true that paying customers are less likely to be expelled. But if they receive a bad review immediately after being warned, I don’t think they can really complain even if they are forcibly expelled.

I’m Taro, a male member. That does happen with women sometimes, too. Do you follow up after making plans? For example, if you arrange to meet a week later, it’s risky to have no contact until the day. At the very least, you should send something a couple of days beforehand, like, “Is everything still okay for our plans? I’m looking forward to seeing you.” If she doesn’t reply, that’s a major red flag. The strategy of exchanging at least one LINE message a day, including casual conversation, is pretty effective. It makes it easy to notice when someone disappears, and regular communication also helps build a more lasting connection. Giving the club feedback would be constructive, so I think you should do it. But as a fundamental solution, I think the person who adapts to the situation wins, rather than the person who complains about the clients.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. I’ve never done it myself, so I can’t really say, but I think there are probably more people who haven’t done it in their lives than those who have. I guess all you can do is accept that it was for the best that your connection ended. Hmm? Not “give up,” but rather, “it was for the best…”

I’m Kazu, a male member. I can’t believe someone would go completely silent after you’d already set a date… I think it would be a good idea to leave feedback about them.