I’m in an adult relationship (intimate) with someone.
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I’m personally not very responsive and not comfortable with that kind of thing, but he’s extremely energetic, and we end up going for as many as three rounds.
Even though I’m doing my best in my own way, since I’m not very responsive, the honest truth is that three rounds can be difficult for me.
How can I communicate this feeling effectively?
I’d really appreciate any advice.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Someone who expects three rounds probably offers a low allowance… It gives me the impression that they’re trying to get their money’s worth somehow.
With that in mind, you might be better off looking for another man.
First, though, you could try saying, “After three rounds, it really starts to hurt down there and becomes too much for me. Could we keep it to two—or maybe just one?”
Alternatively, you could secretly make him think you’ve put it in, while actually using a Tenga so he doesn’t notice.
There is a chance he may cut you off if you’re honest, but I don’t recommend continuing an arrangement that leaves you suffering, since it will wear you down emotionally as well.
Please look for someone better.
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We finished the deed in 20–30 minutes, then I drifted straight into nearly two hours of sleep with a pleasantly intense fatigue. When I woke up, she was still there, giving me an oil massage in bed for almost an hour… It feels so good… I’ve been naked in bed for nearly four hours now.
Even a gold-medal athlete can’t sprint at full speed for a full minute.
If someone’s that energetic, they should be exhausted after three minutes. Five minutes of an all-out sprint would make their heart burst and kill them… I mean, it’s impossible.
For a woman like you, 15–20 minutes should be more than enough.
I’m Paper Airplane, and I can’t help thinking you should cut ties with such a self-centered sex maniac as soon as possible.
Now, what should I have for dinner…? Should I just eat in bed, or eat at the table? I can’t decide…
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
The man you’re seeing seems emotionally insensitive to me. Having sex three times with a woman who doesn’t seem to be enjoying it isn’t being energetic—it simply means he isn’t paying attention to his partner.
I think you have two choices: be prepared for the relationship to end and tell him honestly that you’re hurting, or keep putting up with it and drag things out as long as you can.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Tell him that you’re in pain. If he still tries to continue, he’s a lousy guy who prioritizes his own desires, so I think the only option is to cut ties. If you can put up with it for the allowance, that’s your choice, but there’s no need to keep doing this if it’s causing you that much stress.
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