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Jul 9, 2021 14:26
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This isn’t the first time—it’s happened with four different papas.
For the record, I was the one who ended things every time.
Why do they contact me again even after we’ve parted ways once or twice?
I’d appreciate any advice.
4 answers
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
Even though I’d booked a hotel, the girl I’d arranged a C-type date with turned me down, and none of the girls I currently see were available either. On the off chance, I reached out to a few girls I’d dated in the past, and one happened to be free and came to my room.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Even if you turn me down, I still prefer you to the other women. You’re my favorite… haha.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering as well.
> Why would someone contact me again after we’ve said goodbye once or twice?
I’m surprised there are people who’ve said goodbye twice, but I think it’s probably because:
When you part ways, you think, “Well, if that’s what they want, I can’t help it.”
But then you end up wanting to see them again so badly that you can’t stand it.
That probably means you have that much appeal.
In any case, if a papa you parted ways with contacts you asking to meet again, that sounds pretty lucky to me.
You could suggest doubling the previous allowance and say, “If you’re still okay with that…”
That might let you continue as before. And if he’s willing to pay double, you might feel inclined to meet him again anyway.
It depends on what kind of papa he is, though.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I feel like the clue may lie in what the questioner says when she brings up breaking up.