I’m a BB7 male member.
This may be based purely on my own bias, but I feel that women’s feelings can be very light and changeable.
Even if they’re completely smitten, it’s fairly common for something to happen and for those feelings to vanish in an instant.
Especially when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), even if she says she’s head over heels, maybe it isn’t as serious as a man might think.
Then again, you can end up being stalked, so…
In conclusion, I really don’t know.
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I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member.
I wouldn’t expect them to become completely devoted to you. I think it’s better to be content with being “someone important” to them, allowance included.
That’s more than enough for me, and I want the women to follow their own paths.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer as well.
Are you a man? If so, are you going to fall head over heels for her?
When a man is head over heels for a woman, I think it means he feels strongly enough to give her everything he owns.
If you don’t feel that way yourself but still want the other person to fall completely for you, that seems a bit selfish.
Of course, you’re free to feel that way.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I like my papas ♡
When a papa tells me that another girl is visiting his place right now, it hurts.
It’s not my place to say anything, so I don’t—and I gradually stop contacting him.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I wouldn’t say it’s impossible, but I do think the odds are pretty low. You’d probably have better luck pursuing a sex worker.
What’s crazy about dating clubs is that they’ve created a pathway to going all the way under the guise of romance—a kind of pretend romance. Normally, reaching that point would take a tremendous amount of effort: you’d have to be hopelessly into someone, work up the courage to pursue her, and finally get there. But here, you can get to the same destination as easily as taking a sightseeing bus. Normally, all sorts of things happen along the way, and you’re able to confirm each other’s feelings, right? A sex worker may offer very hands-on service, but it’s still a service. There’s an inner conflict involved in moving beyond that boundary, and that’s where you can confirm whether there’s genuine affection. But with a dating club, that part is missing.
As a man, can you really pour the energy of pure youthful romance into a woman after you’ve already gone all the way in what feels like a pretend romance? I believe affection gradually develops through interaction, but I think it’s fairly difficult to make that happen in a dating-club setting. Of course, the woman may bear some responsibility too, but if the question is coming from a man, my answer is: “First, get your own act together, you bald bastard.”
If that all sounds like too much trouble, just choose someone who’s emotionally unstable. Once things get moving, they reach top speed pretty quickly. They don’t stop, though（笑）
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you mean being completely head over heels, I think that’s pretty rare. But developing some romantic feelings is quite common.
I occasionally hear women who aren’t in a relationship with me say that they like their current papa (a male supporter). I also see similar stories in questions submitted to anonymous Q&A boxes.
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Whether it’s at a dating club, anywhere else, or even in the adult-entertainment industry, I want there to be a possibility—or rather, there is one, right?
It all starts with feeling that possibility, I’m sure… dear questioner.
And aim to become completely devoted to each other through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
This is Paper Airplane, a male member, savoring happiness today as I eat extra-thick noodles.
Mmm, delicious—no, that’s not it—whoa… I’m so happy…
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