I met him twice, and afterward he sent me kind and thoughtful messages every day. But when I sent him several specific dates and times because I wanted to see him, he turned me down, saying that none of the dates worked for him... With him, things were kind of like stopping just short of sex—we didn’t have penetration, although we did get undressed.
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If he had no intention of seeing me again, why did he message me every day, often in fairly long messages?
If anyone understands what might be going on in this man’s mind, or has an idea of what this could mean, I’d appreciate your thoughts.
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
> I sent him several specific dates when I wanted to meet, but he turned me down, saying that none of those dates worked for him.
First, to find out whether he really wants to meet, why not ask him which dates work for him?
If that still doesn’t seem promising, I think you could try playing hard to get.
Deliberately wait more than a day before replying. Then send another message asking him to let you know when he’s available for a date, and ignore him until he suggests a date.
If he never gets back to you, I think it’s fine to move on.
It’s also possible that he was only interested in chatting.
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He still messages you on LINE, but does that mean he doesn’t intend to meet? If I’ve misunderstood, please ask again.
Either way, there’s no point in a man who can’t provide financially, so move on to the next one.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
So, just to make sure I understand: things stopped short on the second meeting, while there wasn’t even any nudity during the first. She continued messaging you on LINE every day after the second meeting, but when you sent her several possible dates to arrange your next meeting, she turned down every one of them—is that right?
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
It would be easier to understand if you explained what happened and why things stopped short.
Was an adult relationship (intimate) originally on the table, or not?
Did she dislike it and refuse?
Did the man lose his erection?
Or was the mood and progression of the date only meant to go as far as B?
Whatever the reason, if it ended that way because of a failed attempt, I doubt he’d be very inclined to meet again.
But if things stopped short because he was trying to treat her with care, he might still be willing to meet.
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